Friendship Etiquette

[FlyJ]

 

 

Not everyone knows about etiquette in friendship. Observing etiquette in friendship can make the difference between short-term relationships or long-lasting friendship.

 

Don’t give out your friend’s phone numbers

 

You aren’t sure if your friend wants to speak with that person or not. If they don’t and you have given out their number, that puts them in the awkward position of speaking with someone that they don’t want to speak with. Never give out your friend’s phone number without asking them first.

 

Never drop by without calling

 

Most often, we don’t know how a friend feels about this until it’s done. Just because a friend doesn’t say anything doesn’t mean they don’t mind. Most friends may not mind, but if they are in the middle of something or have other company over, this could be a problem. According to www.beinggirl.com, unless you are an out-of-town guest and trying to surprise a friend, don’t drop by without calling.

 

Beware of their personal issues

 

Often we think our friends wouldn’t mind if we shared certain things with other people but if you don’t know, then don’t do it. Let your friend be the one to share whatever news they have with that person. If they never do, then that’s how you know they didn’t want them to know.

 

Call your friends

 

You may not be the type of person who is “a phone” person but we have to learn to call and check up on our friends.

 

Offer to pay sometimes

 

Sometimes, our friends may not always be financially stable or maybe their funds are tied up in other reasonable expenses. Sometimes, be ready to foot certain bills for your friends. When you invest in your friends you will always get a return, whether it’s from them or not.

 

Always tell your friend the truth

 

Trust is very important in friendships. Even if you know the truth might hurt your friend’s feelings or cost you the friendship, always tell the truth. It’s better to be respected for telling the truth than a lie.

 

Support your friends

 

Whenever your friend is trying to do something to improve their lives, give them your support and be encouraging. There are a lot of ways to be supportive that may not cost you money but your time can always be used when supporting a friend.

 

Listen to your friends

 

When a friend needs you to listen to them, be there to listen. Sometimes, friends don’t need anything else but a listening ear. Listening can get you far in friendships. When you listen, sometimes, you find out what your friend’s needs are and how to meet them when necessary.

 

Don’t borrow something that’s brand-new

 

Don’t even ask. Your friend might feel bad if she has to say no. Think about it: there’s too much risk of damaging or breaking it, and then you will feel horrible. Even if you are careful, you can’t always prevent something from getting ruined.

 

Don’t borrow something more than twice

 

If you use it too much, you will wear it out! It might be time to get your own. If you can’t afford it yet, save up your money.

 

Speak up

 

If you can’t currently afford to pay your friend the money you owe her, don’t keep quiet. If you don’t speak up, she might think you are never going to pay her back at all. Maybe you can work some sort of payment plan where you pay back a little at a time.

 

Do return something in the condition you got it

 

If you wear your friend’s clothes, wash it or dry-clean it. If something breaks, repair it or replace it. If it’s irreplaceable, then offer the money it would cost to buy a new one.

 

Seek permission

 

Do ask permission about how long you can keep something. Be clear on when you will be able to pay back the cash. That way, there will be no misunderstandings.

 

Show appreciation

 

Never take them for granted! Sharing with friends can be a bonding experience. Thank them for letting you use their stuff.

 

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[divabj]

Nice

[Abystacy]

Spot on

[Skills]

so so true!