Moderators kimi Posted October 13, 2015 Moderators Share Posted October 13, 2015 I have a theory/guiding principle: When love is 'young and immature' I believe it's best to leave sex out of it. Sex distracts and one can easily lose focus on the more important things... By 'young and immature', I refer to a new flame/love/relationship etc... and so, I would rather wait -waiting could be for a while; until we are ready. Anyone share in my view? Or am I just plain old school! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted October 13, 2015 Share Posted October 13, 2015 I believe its best to leave sex out too, sometimes sex clouds good judgement. so I'd like to know the person to an extent before sex Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted October 13, 2015 Share Posted October 13, 2015 I don't see the big deal. if it will work, it will work and if it won't, it won't. Sex never did specifically ruin a relationship. There's tons of issues. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted October 13, 2015 Share Posted October 13, 2015 . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calllaris Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 Once you two have decided to become an item, yet argue and misunderstand each other a lot more still, sex is the best option to make her shut up and focus on you both taking the relationship to the next better level. Especially if you two are commitment, exclusion and monogamy crazy. Sex is important. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted January 15, 2016 Share Posted January 15, 2016 Once you two have decided to become an item, yet argue and misunderstand each other a lot more still, sex is the best option to make her shut up and focus on you both taking the relationship to the next better level. Especially if you two are commitment, exclusion and monogamy crazy. Sex is important. Perusing through threads again and I saw this comment by Callla and i'm like, "it was there all along, we just didn't understand or notice". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calllaris Posted January 15, 2016 Share Posted January 15, 2016 Perusing through threads again and I saw this comment by Callla and i'm like, "it was there all along, we just didn't understand or notice". You care to share your understanding? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeJay Posted January 15, 2016 Share Posted January 15, 2016 Perusing through threads again and I saw this comment by Callla and i'm like, "it was there all along, we just didn't understand or notice". "Sex is the best way to make her shut up and focus on you both" That sounds like forceful sex to me. Rape. What da beep! Commitment and Monogamy crazy, I get. Exclusion crazy? Mehn. None of my business sha. Was this something you both agreed on from the onset? Just couldn't resist asking Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lala1990 Posted January 15, 2016 Share Posted January 15, 2016 C'mon y'all! Still on this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted January 16, 2016 Share Posted January 16, 2016 You care to share your understanding? Going through it again, there's a harsh undertone to it. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
damozy Posted January 17, 2016 Share Posted January 17, 2016 Sex or no sex, what will be will be! No hard feelings, i dont see any big deal in sex. No matter how often you have sex with someone,if she's going leave you,she'll leave. When you date your "friend",you'll be good to go Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calllaris Posted January 20, 2016 Share Posted January 20, 2016 Such a sway indeed. You'll only see what your eyes want to see. "Until she begins to tie you up everynight, mummified, with just your eyes and lips freed, your mounds too; for to see, to kiss and be kissed. Your mounds to squeeze and romp. And that's the only way she cums and you keep cumming" (An hour past. Leznight - the book) You see Deqeen you may just have to know its about what works anywhere and anytime Going through it again, there's a harsh undertone to it. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted December 27, 2018 Share Posted December 27, 2018 On 10/12/2015 at 11:46 PM, kimi said: I have a theory/guiding principle: When love is 'young and immature' I believe it's best to leave sex out of it. Sex distracts and one can easily lose focus on the more important things... By 'young and immature', I refer to a new flame/love/relationship etc... and so, I would rather wait -waiting could be for a while; until we are ready. Anyone share in my view? Or am I just plain old school! I waited nearly a year with my first and she's the only ex that I cared to stay in contact with through the years. I went back for seconds on sex with some of the others but nothing more than that. I don't like being teased though so no wearing lingerie to bed or accidentally being naked around me like we're bffs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted December 27, 2018 Share Posted December 27, 2018 On 10/13/2015 at 7:46 AM, kimi said: I have a theory/guiding principle: When love is 'young and immature' I believe it's best to leave sex out of it. Sex distracts and one can easily lose focus on the more important things... By 'young and immature', I refer to a new flame/love/relationship etc... and so, I would rather wait -waiting could be for a while; until we are ready. Anyone share in my view? Or am I just plain old school! Is this still your stance? 😏 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted December 27, 2018 Author Moderators Share Posted December 27, 2018 3 minutes ago, Damiee said: Is this still your stance? 😏 Hahahahaaha... I'm an Archbishop now. Who is a sex? 😇 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted December 27, 2018 Author Moderators Share Posted December 27, 2018 Loool. On a more serious note, my thoughts on this have evolved just as I have. Lol. I love the concept. So pure... so innocent... lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted December 27, 2018 Share Posted December 27, 2018 26 minutes ago, kimi said: Hahahahaaha... I'm an Archbishop now. Who is a sex? 😇 Lmao Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted December 27, 2018 Share Posted December 27, 2018 24 minutes ago, kimi said: Loool. On a more serious note, my thoughts on this have evolved just as I have. Lol. I love the concept. So pure... so innocent... lol. Please share your current stance dear Archbishop 😁 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted December 27, 2018 Share Posted December 27, 2018 She probably gets it in as soon as possible now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted December 27, 2018 Author Moderators Share Posted December 27, 2018 4 minutes ago, Damiee said: Please share your current stance dear Archbishop 😁 looool. Right now... purity is my watchword. Let's all turn to the book of 1Corinthians 13. We shall take this reading from the third verse... @Damiee please read for us. No other way to demystify this concept of evolution than to dig deep... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted December 27, 2018 Author Moderators Share Posted December 27, 2018 Just now, Michelle said: She probably gets it in as soon as possible now. Hahahaha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted December 27, 2018 Share Posted December 27, 2018 5 minutes ago, Michelle said: She probably gets it in as soon as possible now. Lol I’m going with this one too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted December 27, 2018 Share Posted December 27, 2018 They all start off shy and innocent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted December 27, 2018 Share Posted December 27, 2018 6 minutes ago, kimi said: looool. Right now... purity is my watchword. Let's all turn to the book of 1Corinthians 13. We shall take this reading from the third verse... @Damiee please read for us. No other way to demystify this concept of evolution than to dig deep... Lmao which version please? 😁 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted December 27, 2018 Author Moderators Share Posted December 27, 2018 2 minutes ago, Damiee said: Lol I’m going with this one too. Hahahahaha. I'll get you back. Lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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