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This has got me so confused and is getting more confusing with time. What is the difference or are the differences between ; sex, making love, f***king, screwing, shagging, hooking up, lol. You get the picture though.

Cause like people cheat and say we only f***ked. I don't understand. What is the difference? (Especially between f***king and love-making?)

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Hahahaha! Sorry for the confusion :P

 

Truth is, they are all one and the same. While one (love making) may sound more polite and more dignifying to be used when directing it to a lover; the other (f***k) is more fun, naughty and sensual. Largely colloquial if you asked me. Sex is so classroom/Biology 101 or it could be very sensual too. You know what? It's a case of different strokes for different folks! Whatever rocks your boat darl! *wink*

 

My opinion ofcourse

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Alternatively... the underlisted are common differences between the two

 

Love Making

Frequency: usually done once a day. Focus is on quality.

Style: Vanilla sex

Words used wip: endearments

Location: On a well made bed

Ambience: cool temperature, lights dimmed, romantic

Duration: 1hour - you tell me ;)

Sex Toys: Yes but not a prerequisite

Mood prior: lovestruck

Mood afterwards: lovedrunk

Etiquette for getting undressed: Each help the other

Speed of operation: low - medium

Foreplay: Essential

The morning after: Breakfast in bed; sweet nothings; endless cuddling

Shower: To be done together

 

 

f***king

 

Frequency: Every hour. Up to 12times in a single day. Quantity is king

Style: All other styles not found in the bible

Words used wip: shut up bitch! Suck cunt; nigga; Oga; guy; slut.

Location: table tops; sofas; car; anywhere befitting for a quickie

Ambience: p**sy is all that is required. Extreme weather conditions can be tolerated.

Duration: ***-10minutes

Sex Toys: The latest gadgets in the market e.g.

SC Novelties Universal Strap On Harness with Rear Support

Mood prior: Extremely horny

Mood afterwards: Returns to real self which is usually very annoying

Etiquette for getting undressed: Rip partner's clothes off if they are being too slow

Speed of operation: Speed of light; battery operated mode. f***k like there's no tomorrow; Like rapture takes place the next minute

Foreplay: Not mandatory, could be skipped

The morning after: Start thinking of how long before the goodness of the f***k wears out and when to schedule the next date

Shower: Wear your pant, go to your house and have your bath.

I hope it helps... this is the real deal. Sheds more light

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I think the main difference between them is that making love is mostly about your partner. You want to pleasure them, make them feel good, feel special. But with f***king its really just about yourself. Your pleasure is your priority.

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I think the main difference between them is that making love is mostly about your partner. You want to pleasure them, make them feel good, feel special. But with f***king its really just about yourself. Your pleasure is your priority.

I agree

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Alternatively... the underlisted are common differences between the two

 

Love Making

Frequency: usually done once a day. Focus is on quality.

Style: Vanilla sex

Words used wip: endearments

Location: On a well made bed

Ambience: cool temperature, lights dimmed, romantic

Duration: 1hour - you tell me ;)/>

Sex Toys: Yes but not a prerequisite

Mood prior: lovestruck

Mood afterwards: lovedrunk

Etiquette for getting undressed: Each help the other

Speed of operation: low - medium

Foreplay: Essential

The morning after: Breakfast in bed; sweet nothings; endless cuddling

Shower: To be done together

 

 

f***king

 

Frequency: Every hour. Up to 12times in a single day. Quantity is king

Style: All other styles not found in the bible

Words used wip: shut up bitch! Suck cunt; nigga; Oga; guy; slut.

Location: table tops; sofas; car; anywhere befitting for a quickie

Ambience: p**sy is all that is required. Extreme weather conditions can be tolerated.

Duration: ***-10minutes

Sex Toys: The latest gadgets in the market e.g.

SC Novelties Universal Strap On Harness with Rear Support

Mood prior: Extremely horny

Mood afterwards: Returns to real self which is usually very annoying

Etiquette for getting undressed: Rip partner's clothes off if they are being too slow

Speed of operation: Speed of light; battery operated mode. f***k like there's no tomorrow; Like rapture takes place the next minute

Foreplay: Not mandatory, could be skipped

The morning after: Start thinking of how long before the goodness of the f***k wears out and when to schedule the next date

Shower: Wear your pant, go to your house and have your bath.

I hope it helps... this is the real deal. Sheds more light

Tnks for the lesson... was educating *winks* for me both depends on me or m gf's mood

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On ‎12‎/‎30‎/‎2015 at 10:55 AM, Hawken said:

I'd rather explain this to you in private and preferably with demonstrations.

 

Check your PM 😉

😂

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On 12/31/2015 at 12:53 AM, kimi said:

Alternatively... the underlisted are common differences between the two

 

Love Making

Frequency: usually done once a day. Focus is on quality.

Style: Vanilla sex

Words used wip: endearments

Location: On a well made bed

Ambience: cool temperature, lights dimmed, romantic

Duration: 1hour - you tell me 😉

Sex Toys: Yes but not a prerequisite

Mood prior: lovestruck

Mood afterwards: lovedrunk

Etiquette for getting undressed: Each help the other

Speed of operation: low - medium

Foreplay: Essential

The morning after: Breakfast in bed; sweet nothings; endless cuddling

Shower: To be done together

 

 

f***king

 

Frequency: Every hour. Up to 12times in a single day. Quantity is king

Style: All other styles not found in the bible

Words used wip: shut up bitch! Suck cunt; nigga; Oga; guy; slut.

Location: table tops; sofas; car; anywhere befitting for a quickie

Ambience: p**sy is all that is required. Extreme weather conditions can be tolerated.

Duration: ***-10minutes

Sex Toys: The latest gadgets in the market e.g.

SC Novelties Universal Strap On Harness with Rear Support

Mood prior: Extremely horny

Mood afterwards: Returns to real self which is usually very annoying

Etiquette for getting undressed: Rip partner's clothes off if they are being too slow

Speed of operation: Speed of light; battery operated mode. f***k like there's no tomorrow; Like rapture takes place the next minute

Foreplay: Not mandatory, could be skipped

The morning after: Start thinking of how long before the goodness of the f***k wears out and when to schedule the next date

Shower: Wear your pant, go to your house and have your bath.

I hope it helps... this is the real deal. Sheds more light

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