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kimi oya na,don't dull urself na...lol

 

I just knew people would run away from this topic. perfectionists! hahaha

 

One of my biggest flaws is being over principled. sleeky u cannot be god!

 

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Hahahahaha! I'm back from the temple.

 

So what I did was to chat up a friend of mine (female). She's also gay and has known me since I was 16. This is what she had to say o... 

 

A little selfish. Sometimes indecisive. Sometimes you get too absorbed in yourself. Can be unassertive and a push-over at times.

 

Not like I need to explain anything to any of you pipu sef; the unassertive must come from always wanting to make some people happy at my expense or constantly seeking their approval. I have begun some work on that this year sha. In no time, i'd be purfect :D :P

 

Another who has known me for about a decade (male) sent:

 

Off the top of my head - you're not very tolerative of divergent opinion, you live too much in ur imagination against the real world, you don't really express the things that matter to you, instead u bottle is until it gets to crisis situation.. 

 

Choi! *covers face*

 

There you go ladies... the Kimi :blink:

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Only you Kimi.

 

My flaws:

 

1. Indecisive.

2. Too principled. This makes me selective of people I allow to come close. This may pass as being a snub/harsh/rude.

***. Mehn, do I get angry easily. I don't look it. With the baby face and all... :P (selling point :D) I could be angered and keep cool, won't pretend though. It isn't destructive until it concerns the safety of people dear to me.

4. Routine bores me. Easily bored.

5. Commitment scares me.

 

There. I laid it all out. Feels like I just went naked before a male Doctor.

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Living inside my head. The correction is actually my new year resolution.

 

Reasons why its a flaw

People think I'm too secretive (meanwhile I don't have a single secret)

Folks get very surprised by things I do cus they had no single foreknowledge

I get highly self absorbed until I make an effort to leave my head.

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Hahahahaha! @ out out out

I getchu mehn! I live in mine because I can't really be myself with most folks thanks to my big secret! *ssshhh* ;)

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Really, Sleeky? So many people would appreciate that sort of flaw.

 

Awwwww.....but don't forget the keeping to my word from the bad angle o.

 

I really wish I could work on it for real.but I keep back sliding lol.

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Saw that as "Keep sliding back in. Keep sliding back in" I like sliding in.

 

Well, that could be a flaw, yea. Like, "I am not in the mood!" And you would mean it. 'll be so heartbreaking.

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lemme think emmmmmmmmm

(1) am to compassionate (most times people take advantage of it)

(2) don't really like to mingle

*** I dont really get along wit rigid n harsh people. . dasall 4 now.. next post pls

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  • 3 years later...

1. I am too emotional 

2. If you hurt me i keep it in a bank and when the account gets full i explode and at that point i dont give a f***k its over ! And you wuld be wondering only that small thing?

3. Not good in calling or visiting  but know i love you

4. I am still  in my closet .... nothing i can do about it for now

 

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I am Too sentimental. 

I like to overflog issues, But only when I am not satisfied with The answers I get. 

What else?🤔🤔 Would update if I remember anything else. 

 

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  • 4 months later...

I cut people off too easily. I am brutal at this; Like i don't give people second chances. 

I can be bloody generous, and can spread myself to pin only to become stranded myself. 

I don't forget if you wrong me and can be very vindictive.

I rarely keep to appointment, I am very bad with time and appointment.

I listen to nobody and does only what I want to do, no matter who you are. Although, I recently listened to a friend and regretted the outcome almost immediately.

 

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On 5/7/2019 at 10:51 AM, Txunamy said:

I like to overflog issues, But only when I am not satisfied with The answers I get.

What's the best answers? 🤔

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