Hephzy Posted October 8, 2017 Author Share Posted October 8, 2017 1 minute ago, kimi said: I umderstand the confusion... It is those sort that give lesbians a bad name. It is why men would typically think and say things like "she hasn't met the right guy yet or hasn't been f***ked right" is why she is a lesbian. Etc... We are not lesbians because we got heartbroken or because we are seeking to escape men drama. We just are. *Pardon my vulgarity* I get... Yeaaa.....never been heart broken before....trying so hard to handle one......I wish I drink, I will just get drunk. But I don't!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted October 8, 2017 Moderators Share Posted October 8, 2017 Awwh... she isn't worth it. Don't give her that much power over you. It is easier said than done to be honest... we are here for you. Hugs x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suavity Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 7 hours ago, Hephzy said: Ladies bawo??...guys have drama...actually many ladies turn lez because of men drama Like seriously Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 20 hours ago, kimi said: I can understand the confusion... It is those sort that give lesbians a bad name. It is why men would typically think and say things like "she hasn't met the right guy yet or hasn't been f***ked right" is why she is a lesbian. Etc... We are not lesbians because we got our hearts broken or because we are seeking to escape men drama. We just are. *Pardon my vulgarity* True.. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phegore Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 Hephzy come and take a big hug ...sometimes all u've got to do is forget how u feel and remember what u deserve. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scarlet Posted October 10, 2017 Share Posted October 10, 2017 On 10/8/2017 at 2:20 PM, Covfefe said: Is it really a bi thing or just another indecisive woman? Bisexuality is not synonymous with infidelity. I believe it's an individual thing, just like a hetero woman cheating. I know a lot of bi-women who take commitments seriously. Being sexually fluid does not necessarily translate to being a hoe. A hoe will always be a hoe, not minding her or his sexual identity. And stop the bi - phobia, are we not supposed to be a community? As a lesbian female, I find particularly disgusting that so much bi- phobia comes from the LGBTQIA+ community. We, of all people should understand how it feels to have our orientation invalidated and erased. Yet we turn right around and do same to our bi -brothers and sisters, particularly our bi- sisters. That's not just wholly f***ked up, but also very sickening. Thank you for this post. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oluchi Posted October 10, 2017 Share Posted October 10, 2017 On 10/8/2017 at 11:01 PM, Hawken said: LMAO all that semen you've unwittingly ingested, poor you. same thing am thinking too. I cant stand it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oluchi Posted October 10, 2017 Share Posted October 10, 2017 On 10/9/2017 at 11:27 PM, Hephzy said: I get... Yeaaa.....never been heart broken before....trying so hard to handle one......I wish I drink, I will just get drunk. But I don't!! true talk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jibz Posted October 10, 2017 Share Posted October 10, 2017 @Hephzy you most definitely will be fine..it just hurts for a while :) *hugs* The girl dating boy and girl phenomenon well its not today but i don't buy the grammar of im Bi, its cheating and just tacky. Ill rather you be honest as to what it is so we all know where we stand - friends with benefits? f***kbuddies? not give it a boyfriend or girlfriend tag and insult all parties. In most of these cases the girl knows there is a 'boyfriend' but the boy doesn't know there is a 'girlfriend' so who is the side piece really? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted October 10, 2017 Administrators Share Posted October 10, 2017 Very true @Jibz. You couldn't have said it better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gbemie Posted October 11, 2017 Share Posted October 11, 2017 On 10/10/2017 at 9:51 AM, scarlet said: As a lesbian female, I find particularly disgusting that so much bi- phobia comes from the LGBTQIA+ community. We, of all people should understand how it feels to have our orientation invalidated and erased. Yet we turn right around and do same to our bi -brothers and sisters, particularly our bi- sisters. That's not just wholly f***ked up, but also very sickening. Thank you for this post. Thanks for this 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matty Posted October 11, 2017 Share Posted October 11, 2017 On 10/8/2017 at 7:59 PM, Rachel said: So men have dramas too, thought it was just the ladies/women? Chai Women drama ehn. Hmmmmmm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matty Posted October 11, 2017 Share Posted October 11, 2017 On 10/9/2017 at 0:27 AM, Hephzy said: I get... Yeaaa.....never been heart broken before....trying so hard to handle one......I wish I drink, I will just get drunk. But I don't!! Drinking sometimes is more fun when not drunk... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hephzy Posted October 11, 2017 Author Share Posted October 11, 2017 On 09/10/2017 at 10:05 PM, Phegore said: Hephzy come and take a big hug ...sometimes all u've got to do is forget how u feel and remember what u deserve. Thnx sugar...BTW how can I get my hug...real hug not a cyber hug Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farida Posted October 12, 2017 Share Posted October 12, 2017 Lol i get that "I really love you but you're bi, you'll end up breaking up with me and moving with a man" "are you sure you're not 100% gay? You look so" "I think you're all gay you just don't want to admit" "i can't accept the fact that you're bi. When ever you turn gay please find me." Bitch I stand for the B in LGBTQ! You can't scrape me out. I'm no dirt. 1 2 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted October 12, 2017 Share Posted October 12, 2017 9 hours ago, Farida said: Lol i get that "I really love you but you're bi, you'll end up breaking up with me and moving with a man" "are you sure you're not 100% gay? You look so" "I think you're all gay you just don't want to admit" "i can't accept the fact that you're bi. When ever you turn gay please find me." Bitch I stand for the B in LGBTQ! You can't scrape me out. I'm no dirt. You are shouting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suavity Posted October 12, 2017 Share Posted October 12, 2017 As a lesbian, I can honestly say I have nothing against bisexual people. The people i do have an issue with, however, are the teenage girls who make out with other girls just to get a guy's attention. They completely undermine people who are actually bisexual, and to be honest, it's downright offensive. I mean, I joke around with one of my friend who is bi, saying 'oh, you're just greedy' from time to time as a joke, just as she doesn't understand how I can exclusively like one gender. Personally, I think I'd find it difficult to date a bisexual girl at first, but if I genuinely liked them it wouldn't be a problem. I think the main thing is subconscious jealousy. No matter how many times you reassure us that you're not going to just up sticks and run off with a guy, we can't quite believe it. But I suppose that shows more about us than it does to you. So yeah, we don't hate you, we can just get a little jealous. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farida Posted October 12, 2017 Share Posted October 12, 2017 2 hours ago, Hawken said: You are shouting. Not loud enough apparently. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted October 12, 2017 Share Posted October 12, 2017 11 minutes ago, Farida said: Not loud enough apparently. LOL this wasn't the response I was expecting. I was hoping you would be legit tickled and give it to me :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farida Posted October 12, 2017 Share Posted October 12, 2017 5 minutes ago, Hawken said: LOL this wasn't the response I was expecting. I was hoping you would be legit tickled and give it to me :( Lol I don't fall for traps. Carry your bait ango Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted October 12, 2017 Share Posted October 12, 2017 1 hour ago, Suavity said: I think the main thing is subconscious jealousy. No matter how many times you reassure us that you're not going to just up sticks and run off with a guy, we can't quite believe it. But I suppose that shows more about us than it does to you. So yeah, we don't hate you, we can just get a little jealous. This is it here. Plain and simple. We believe the guy obviously has so much more to give so why would they choose us. Today it just occurred to me that all my girlfriends have been bi. I guess I don't have a problem with it as much as I thought. But my greatest fear will forever be licking sperm by mistake. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted October 12, 2017 Share Posted October 12, 2017 6 minutes ago, Farida said: Lol I don't fall for traps. Carry your bait ango 😂 I think this one was too obvious. I will be more subtle next time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farida Posted October 12, 2017 Share Posted October 12, 2017 11 minutes ago, Hawken said: 😂 I think this one was too obvious. I will be more subtle next time. 😂 I wait Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dwayne1 Posted October 22, 2017 Share Posted October 22, 2017 On 09/10/2017 at 0:24 AM, kimi said: I can understand the confusion... It is those sort that give lesbians a bad name. It is why men would typically think and say things like "she hasn't met the right guy yet or hasn't been f***ked right" is why she is a lesbian. Etc... We are not lesbians because we got our hearts broken or because we are seeking to escape men drama. We just are. *Pardon my vulgarity* I'm with you on this one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted December 28, 2018 Share Posted December 28, 2018 Not if she has a boyfriend. She'd have to be d**ck free for a while before I enter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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