Txunamy Posted October 28, 2017 Share Posted October 28, 2017 Okay guys.. So, you just came out of a long term relationship that left you heartbroken of course..how long would it take you to get into another? Are you of the school of thought that says"the best way to get over someone is to get under someone"? Do you jump right into another relationship knowing fully well that the person is just a rebound? Ever been someone's rebound? I once met someone that told me she just got out of a relationship 3weeks prior to knowing me.5 days into communication between us, babe was all over me.she could call me like 5times daily, always chatting me up and all that stuff.one week later, babe was singing a Love song.then it dawned on me..I was the REBOUND! No way you'd love someone that fast when you just came out of a relationship.she was just using me to get over her Ex and it sucked.I picked my running shoes and ran! Ladies, Will you date someone who just came out of a relationship? Do you care about being someone's rebound or not? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted October 28, 2017 Share Posted October 28, 2017 It would take some time for me to move on to someone else. I could be having flings tho but never anything serious for a while. I wouldn't know if I've been a rebound to someone tho but if I was, trust me I wasn't aware. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 28, 2017 Author Share Posted October 28, 2017 3 hours ago, vina said: It would take some time for me to move on to someone else. I could be having flings tho but never anything serious for a while. I wouldn't know if I've been a rebound to someone tho but if I was, trust me I wasn't aware. Lol..that's cool though.. Being a rebound girl is not a good place to be in. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted October 28, 2017 Moderators Share Posted October 28, 2017 When I was much younger, yes I had a rebound who I later came to feel something strong for. Now, I wouldn't do that to another... I'm careful not to. I listen to my heart, emotions and my body and would only commit to a relationship when every part of me is absoluty ready. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted October 28, 2017 Share Posted October 28, 2017 I don't even know what to say. Well, I have never been a rebound and I cannot make another person my rebound girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farida Posted October 28, 2017 Share Posted October 28, 2017 I’m a shy person so i don’t go approaching people and because of that i got me a toy ( a flesh light). So whenever I’m booless it don’t mean i don’t get to feel ‘alright’. Fammm if the konji dey ehn i’ll allow her use me. Shey na only use? Small ‘use’ nayin i go shout? No be only rebound. Laslas na she go catch feelings. Her daddy! She dey mahdt gan! See ehn I’m Shouting! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted October 29, 2017 Share Posted October 29, 2017 I think I'm a rebound but its going very smoothly and great so I got no complaints. Personally I don't do rebounds or flings after a relationship. I give myself time to get over people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phegore Posted October 29, 2017 Share Posted October 29, 2017 The best thing to do after a heartbreak is just to give yourself time to heal ...I don't understand how people just move on so quickly to someone else. i've never been anyone's rebound girl tho ...and I don't think I can do that to anyone 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matty Posted October 29, 2017 Share Posted October 29, 2017 One sweet thing about rebound is if there is No commitment No attachment No feelings... Rebound = Flings Just fun.... That way no1 gets hurt... But if there is commitment n all den someone definitely will get hurt V never been n i cant do that to someone else ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 29, 2017 Author Share Posted October 29, 2017 16 hours ago, kimi said: Now, I wouldn't do that to another... I'm careful not to. I listen to my heart, emotions and my body and would only commit to a relationship when every part of me is absoluty ready. Way to go! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 29, 2017 Author Share Posted October 29, 2017 8 hours ago, Hawken said: I think I'm a rebound but its going very smoothly and great so I got no complaints. Personally I don't do rebounds or flings after a relationship. I give myself time to get over people. Lol..@ 'i think I'm a rebound'.. Oh well.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 29, 2017 Author Share Posted October 29, 2017 3 hours ago, Matty said: One sweet thing about rebound is if there is No commitment No attachment No feelings... Rebound = Flings Just fun.... That way no1 gets hurt... But if there is commitment n all den someone definitely will get hurt V never been n i cant do that to someone else ... Nice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 29, 2017 Author Share Posted October 29, 2017 3 hours ago, Phegore said: The best thing to do after a heartbreak is just to give yourself time to heal ...I don't understand how people just move on so quickly to someone else. i've never been anyone's rebound girl tho ...and I don't think I can do that to anyone Exactly.. Its just that for some people they can't heal all on their own.they need someone to make them get over the pain of heartbreak.. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 29, 2017 Author Share Posted October 29, 2017 16 hours ago, Farida said: I’m a shy person so i don’t go approaching people and because of that i got me a toy ( a flesh light). So whenever I’m booless it don’t mean i don’t get to feel ‘alright’. Fammm if the konji dey ehn i’ll allow her use me. Shey na only use? Small ‘use’ nayin i go shout? No be only rebound. Laslas na she go catch feelings. Her daddy! She dey mahdt gan! See ehn I’m Shouting! Lmao! Well, that's another angle to it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 29, 2017 Author Share Posted October 29, 2017 16 hours ago, Teewhy said: I don't even know what to say. Well, I have never been a rebound and I cannot make another person my rebound girl. Good geh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted January 8, 2019 Share Posted January 8, 2019 On 10/29/2017 at 7:23 AM, Txunamy said: Exactly.. Its just that for some people they can't heal all on their own.they need someone to make them get over the pain of heartbreak.. Are you one of those people? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 8, 2019 Moderators Share Posted January 8, 2019 12 minutes ago, Michelle said: Are you one of those people? No I'm not but thanks for asking yo! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted January 8, 2019 Share Posted January 8, 2019 4 minutes ago, kimi said: No I'm not but thanks for asking yo! 😁 wasn't talking to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 8, 2019 Moderators Share Posted January 8, 2019 Just now, Michelle said: 😁 wasn't talking to you. Hahaha. But you are now! My answer stays the same Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 8, 2019 Author Share Posted January 8, 2019 1 hour ago, Michelle said: Are you one of those people? Nope.. I Heal before i move on to another. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MENA Posted January 16, 2019 Share Posted January 16, 2019 Rebound or not. I think is good to let people heal properly before you get involve with them. No matter how much you feel you like her let her be if not you may end up feeling like a psycho. No matter how hard you try to please her she reads wrong meaning to it. She will always compare you to her ex. She will act too hard when she is not suppose to because she will be over protective of herself. You can imagine someone being with you for the first time and you consciously did the best you could to make her happy and she did confess to you that this is one of the best moment she has really been happy in a long while but only at the end of her two weeks stay, she says to you that she felt hurt almost every single day. OMG!😯 Is better to let her be and save yourself from all the psychological shit. 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 16, 2019 Moderators Share Posted January 16, 2019 3 minutes ago, MENA said: No matter how much you feel you like her let her be if not you may end up feeling like a psycho. Hahahahahaha. I've missed you on here! Very apt response. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MENA Posted January 16, 2019 Share Posted January 16, 2019 33 minutes ago, kimi said: Hahahahahaha. I've missed you on here! Very apt response. My Holiness, am loyal ma😁 May be Is because of the too much food this period that made laziness catch up with me. Even to be useful to my own self, no way. I don't know why this festive period there was no " No thank you to food" in my dictionary. Now am back to reality. In November l was told severally l look sweet sixteen. I remember l visit someone that we saw about late last year and the first thing he said to me this January was "where are you rolling to?"😯😂 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 16, 2019 Moderators Share Posted January 16, 2019 1 minute ago, MENA said: My Holiness, am loyal ma😁 May be Is because of the too much food this period that made laziness catch up with me. Even to be useful to my own self, no way. I don't know why this festive period there was no " No thank you to food" in my dictionary. Now am back to reality. In November l was told severally l look sweet sixteen. I remember l visit someone that we saw about late last and the first thing he said to me this January was "where are you rolling to?"😯😂 Hahahahaha... he's mean! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 17, 2019 Author Share Posted January 17, 2019 11 hours ago, MENA said: Rebound or not. I think is good to let people heal properly before you get involve with them. No matter how much you feel you like her let her be if not you may end up feeling like a psycho. No matter how hard you try to please her she reads wrong meaning to it. She will always compare you to her ex. She will act too hard when she is not suppose to because she will be over protective of herself. You can imagine someone being with you for the first time and you consciously did the best you could to make her happy and she did confess to you that this is one of the best moment she has really been happy in a long while but only at the end of her two weeks stay, she says to you that she felt hurt almost every single day. OMG!😯 Is better to let her be and save yourself from all the psychological shit. 👍 Meanwhile @MENA You promised me a big fat turkey for christmas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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