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29 minutes ago, kimi said:

Now by this, you've said it all. You think America doesn't have places with all you've described?

Show me a place  in America that depicts all of my descriptions and I would show you a thousands and one places in Nigeria and Many parts of Africa that  does,  the different is,  there are infrastructures in place  working around clock to mitigate against this these things in america unlike here in Africa (Nigeria) where government do not care. 

 

29 minutes ago, kimi said:

Now by this, you've said it all. You think America doesn't have places with all you've described? 

 

Loool. I assure, it does..perhaps far more senseless killings than we do in this part of the world.

Truth is, I was shocked by your comment. Trump had no right whatsoever to refer to those countries in that language. Yes, I took it as a personal insult. Why lie about it then? It tells you something doesn't it? That even.in that portion of his mind that is still sensible, he knows it wasn't a fair and respectable remark.

When a country has the 'power of media' it is able to show you exactly what it wants you to see. Simply called 'branding'. America has got this as an advantage

Truth is,  we don't like the truth in this country,  yes we all know Donald Trump is a certified as****h**le no doubt. But what are we doing to make sure that we make a good case against his words?  Absolutely Nothing!!  Look at our graduates with their half educated brains. Look at our roads and its death trap. Look at our religious institutions and how they prey on our gullibility and milk us dry. Look at the amount of people that leave this country daily to seek asylum and acceptance in America and Canada and western countries. Just take Look at you and I, living in fear of fulani herds men attacking us for doing nothing. This country is a grave yard, a sinking ship and whether we agree to it or not  Trump is right this time.

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I won't argue based on sentiments, but I will say this: God bless Nigeria :597f824b9bcf2_tw_blush1:

50 minutes ago, scarlet said:

Look at our graduates (-21) with their half educated brains.

I subtracted myself and loved ones from that o... Lol 🙄☻

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@scarlet you just said I have a half educated brain.  :597f827d3eef6_tw_fearful1:

Anyways, this argument is just like when you tell a runsgirl that she's a prostitute or call an escort a whore. The truth is always bitter. If you are not that, if that is not the image you project, no one will call you that. 

Every time, they will be begging for funding upandan , har ma the Nigerian dream is now to leave Nigeria. If your citizens stop running upandan to school, for health, to live, to seek asylum, they will not bad mouth you people. :597f83a445cb9_tw_joy1:

Shithole ko, disco ni. 

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So this is proof of how horrible I am at lav. :597f839311844_tw_grin1: I want Le Chocolate but I know that Red Velvet is good for me. Still , give me Chocolate, yolo! The pleasure will be worth the pain.

 

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So I forgot how much I used to want to f***k Lara croft. Geez! Smoking gun

Thank you mnet for reminding me. Badass hotness. I'm smitten all over again.

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So @vina I read your diary entry today. It would be certainly sweet to have our own NL nursery. As to what kids call, I decided it should be mom and mommy. So one of us is mom and the other is mommy. It's kind of disrespectful to let your kids call you by your name, don't you think so? 

Plus in Nigeria, the number of ladies I call mommy, even me sef  e tire me. Sometimes my mom is there with like 2 others and I'm like "mommy, no I mean mommy so-so" because they all turn. Lol.

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2 minutes ago, dequeen said:

So @vina I read your  enterdiary entry today. I ht would be certainly sweet to have our own NL nursery. As to what kids call, I decided it should be mom and mommy. So one of us is mom and the other is mommy. It's kind of disrespectful to let your kids call you by your name, don't you think so? 

Mom and mommy is typical,it's cute too.

I don't think it's dirsespectful To have my kids call me by my name, although its my pet name and I've Had it since I was a baby, so technically they'll Interchange between That and my name.

 

Some people call their mother aunty sef. Hehehehe. The relationship is what matters.

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3 minutes ago, vina said:

Mom and mommy is typical,it's cute too.

I don't think it's dirsespectful To have my kids call me by my name, although its my pet name and I've Had it since I was a baby, so technically they'll Interchange between That and my name.

 

Some people call their mother aunty sef. Hehehehe. The relationship is what matters.

I guess so. As long as  they know the truth and are not ashamed of it, I guess all is well with the world. 

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I do miss the old Grey's Anatomy with McDreamy, Christina, George, Izzy, McSteamy and Calliope. Better story lines. Today's episode was just plain boring. 

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Lipstick is such a waste on me. After preping  to go out, I sat for breakfast and I've succeeded in licking almost all the lipstick. 

After breakfast, I'll re-apply it, and then I will use all sort of lip expressions while thinking and while conversing, ensuring that in a max of 2hours, I would have licked the entire lipstick again. 

#WoesOfAChapstickLesbian

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2 hours ago, dequeen said:

Lipstick is such a waste on me. After preping  to go out, I sat for breakfast and I've succeeded in licking almost all the lipstick. 

After breakfast, I'll re-apply it, and then I will use all sort of lip expressions while thinking and while conversing, ensuring that in a max of 2hours, I would have licked the entire lipstick again. 

#WoesOfAChapstickLesbian

LMAO! 

I can relate. I used to do that too..

Why don't you use Matte? I use a classic product,and even when I run my tongue over my lips(i do that a lot, bad habit) the lipstick stays on. 

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7 hours ago, Ivyy said:

LMAO! 

I can relate. I used to do that too..

Why don't you use Matte? I use a classic product,and even when I run my tongue over my lips(i do that a lot, bad habit) the lipstick stays on. 

I will certainly get one. Thanks for the suggestion! Like this weekend won't pass me by. 

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On 10/02/2018 at 8:53 AM, dequeen said:

Lipstick is such a waste on me. After preping  to go out, I sat for breakfast and I've succeeded in licking almost all the lipstick. 

After breakfast, I'll re-apply it, and then I will use all sort of lip expressions while thinking and while conversing, ensuring that in a max of 2hours, I would have licked the entire lipstick again. 

#WoesOfAChapstickLesbian

Lmao. I can just imagine. I used one on Wednesday and within 2 hours, I was asking myself why I bothered. Not even that it wiped off. It was that weird thing where because your lips are a little dry, the lipstick just sits on top of it and keeps moving around. 

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On 14/01/2018 at 6:32 AM, scarlet said:

Show me a place  in America that depicts all of my descriptions and I would show you a thousands and one places in Nigeria and Many parts of Africa that  does,  the different is,  there are infrastructures in place  working around clock to mitigate against this these things in america unlike here in Africa (Nigeria) where government do not care. 

 

Truth is,  we don't like the truth in this country,  yes we all know Donald Trump is a certified as****h**le no doubt. But what are we doing to make sure that we make a good case against his words?  Absolutely Nothing!!  Look at our graduates with their half educated brains. Look at our roads and its death trap. Look at our religious institutions and how they prey on our gullibility and milk us dry. Look at the amount of people that leave this country daily to seek asylum and acceptance in America and Canada and western countries. Just take Look at you and I, living in fear of fulani herds men attacking us for doing nothing. This country is a grave yard, a sinking ship and whether we agree to it or not  Trump is right this time.

 Tbh you are very right. I wish the government is a little bit as caring as other first world governments. But then that's why we are what we are, a thirdworld, lawless and selfish county. If the place is a bit conducive to living then I doubt people would be wanting to run away, who doesn't want a good life. I don't know why people are angry that Nigeria was called a s***hole, not the people but the state of the country is worse than s***hole. In Nigeria no one cares if you lives or dies. If you don't have a billionaire parent or be a rich celebrity you are as good as non-existing and yet we have so many people going through this! Denial doesn't make us get better, acceptance makes us want to work to be better!

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8 hours ago, DipBluSae said:

 Tbh you are very right. I wish the government is a little bit as caring as other first world governments. But then that's why we are what we are, a thirdworld, lawless and selfish county. If the place is a bit conducive to living then I doubt people would be wanting to run away, who doesn't want a good life. I don't know why people are angry that Nigeria was called a s***hole, not the people but the state of the country is worse than s***hole. In Nigeria no one cares if you lives or dies. If you don't have a billionaire parent or be a rich celebrity you are as good as non-existing and yet we have so many people going through this! Denial doesn't make us get better, acceptance makes us want to work to be better!

Alas, somebody agrees with me that Nigeria is a Stinky shit hole country.

 

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