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Does ones pornographic preference indicate their sexual orientation?


Keke

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Would one frequent a Chinese restaurant if they didn't like Chinese food?
That's what I ask girls who watch  lesbian pornography but would vehemently and genuinely insist that they are totally straight. It's not rocket science. Ones  sexual preference absolutely influences what category  of pornography they patronize.

How would you have known that there are pornographic channels for pregnant women if you don't have or desire to have sex with pregnant women?
When it has to do with pornography, one would probably want  to  watch people they are attracted to, what would get them off and what they fantasize about.
It's important to however point out that a lot of other things could influence pornography preferences. I watch extreme bondage and p**sy-gaping (don't judge) but I cannot try those in real life.

Outside the screen it loses all attraction to me. It is however an indicator that I love a little bit of pain during sex and unconventional sex. That being said,  pornographic preference alone can't determine ones sexual orientation, but it is an indicator.

 

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Most times I watch Beholy flicks cos I wanna know or see things I can't experience... For instance, I watch lots of gay flicks cos I wanna what prompts them and how they do what we do. 

So you're right, what I watch is not necessarily what I want or what I wanna experience.. It's mostly curiosity for me 

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Another research question from @keke o... lol 

I honestly don't know... perhaps like you pointed out, I think I would also lean towards your conclusion of pornographic preferences being indicators rather than predictors.

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Lol. I disagree, I don’t think anyone’s sexual preference is influenced by the BeHoly category they watch. For instance, if a guy likes to watch all and anything in the lesbian category (trust me, there are lots of guys like this), what does that mean? 

I think it’s more about curiosity and fantasies. So yeah, as you said, a lot of other factors can influence it as well. 

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6 minutes ago, Damiee said:

Lol. I disagree, I don’t think anyone’s sexual preference is influenced by the BeHoly category they watch. For instance, if a guy likes to watch all and anything in the lesbian category (trust me, there are lots of guys like this), what does that mean? 

I think it’s more about curiosity and fantasies. So yeah, as you said, a lot of other factors can influence it as well. 

You just nailed it.. 

Curiosity and fantasies.. 

On my part, it's more of curiosity.. I watch Certain porno simply cos I am curious and I want to know how it works.. 

For instance, I heard about fisting, and I went-a fishing and watched a video. 

And after that I went, No No No.. 

Cos I would never do that.. Even though I enjoyed watching it.. 

Another thing I enjoy watching is threesome vids.. Would I ever do a threesome? I can confidently say never, cos it's not my favorite scene. But on screen, it is..

Different strokes for different folks.. 

 

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20 minutes ago, Ivyy said:

On my part, it's more of curiosity.. I watch Certain porno simply cos I am curious and I want to know how it works.. 

Yeah I think it starts off as curiosity for most people, and then it evolves to fantasy. 

Meanehile, why is “porno” changing to “BeHoly”? Does that mean be holy and not watch porno? Lol. 

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56 minutes ago, Damiee said:

 

Meanwhile, why is “porno” changing to “BeHoly”? Does that mean be holy and not watch porno? Lol. 

I was wondering o. I had to rewrite it in full. Lol.

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Yep, I agree, a lot of curiousity is involved in it. I ransack those sites, going from tag to tag to see what is going on, all sorts of weirdness. Funny thing is that most times I just watch their faces rather than whatever is going on down there, and I'm like "Wow, they seem to be enjoying it. Lol" and I move on to the next tag.

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2 hours ago, dequeen said:

 I ransack those sites, going from tag to tag .

All the porrno watchers are creeping out. You peepu should not spoil me.🙄

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On 3/9/2018 at 7:47 PM, Keke said:

All the porrno watchers are creeping out. You peepu should not spoil me.🙄

Hahahaha!!! It's my past ayam gisting you of o, Ayav change now. :597f824b9bcf2_tw_blush1:

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Not necessarily.I will narrow it down to curiosity.

I've often been scarred in the past by BeHoly but it didn't stray me away from the goryness. However, some females who are intrigued by lesbian BeHoly, should admit..It excites them.. ,😏😏

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I would say that it does even though it started as one of curiosity. Yes, you may have watched all aspects but there's a particular one that excites you which you keep going back to and you'd want to try that one out.

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On 08/03/2018 at 8:34 PM, Damiee said:

For instance, if a guy likes to watch all and anything in the lesbian category (trust me, there are lots of guys like this), what does that mean? 

It means the guy is straight, he likes girls, and the other hetero part doesn't do it for him. 

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I don't like lesbian BeHoly. Maybe its because its always unrealistic to me but lesbian BeHoly just doesn't turn me on and I'm a lesbian..

There are women who fantasize about been raped and search out BeHoly depicting it. But in reality, they don't want to be raped (I think).

I watch straight BeHoly but in reality, don't bring a penis near me or else we'll have very serious issues.

I also read somewhere that a lot of lesbians love watching M+M BeHoly. I asked a couple and they agreed. So I searched it out and I have to admit I found it ... interesting.

*shrugs*

 

 

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Some years back, a research was carried out that revealed that the eyes could betray ones sexuality and the experiment was to observe the dilation of the pupils as different BeHoly scenes were being played to the person. 

Amazingly, queer ladies had their pupils resize even towards straight BeHoly although it was noticed that when most queer women watched straight BeHoly, they focused on the woman, not the man in the video. 

The confusion arose though when straight women also had pupil resizing to lesbian BeHoly..... Hence the saying "All women have queer tendencies."

Just felt like sharing this here. 

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1 hour ago, dequeen said:

Some years back, a research was carried out that revealed that the eyes could betray ones sexuality and the experiment was to observe the dilation of the pupils as different BeHoly scenes were being played to the person. 

Amazingly, queer ladies had their pupils resize even towards straight BeHoly although it was noticed that when most queer women watched straight BeHoly, they focused on the woman, not the man in the video. 

The confusion arose though when straight women also had pupil resizing to lesbian BeHoly..... Hence the saying "All women have queer tendencies."

Just felt like sharing this here. 

I often say that all women have queer tendencies, but people would always want to argue it. 

A straight girl who isn't bicurious can get aroused if a girl touches her boobs. 

A straight man would slap any man that dares to touch his pee pee. His pee would even shrink at a man's touch. 😁 

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13 hours ago, Ivyy said:

I often say that all women have queer tendencies, but people would always want to argue it. 

A straight girl who isn't bicurious can get aroused if a girl touches her boobs. 

A straight man would slap any man that dares to touch his pee pee. His pee would even shrink at a man's touch. 😁 

I think the problem people have, myself included is the "all" bit. A lot? I would agree to but ALL? That's just "unsafe generalization".

I agree that women are way more fluid than men but there are women who are still solidly on the heterosexual spectrum of sexuality.

Meanwhile men are so stiff Lmao. Someone tweeted that he was sick and his friend said " how are you feeling dear?" or something like that, and that's how he blocked the friend 😂😂

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8 hours ago, Hawken said:

I think the problem people have, myself included is the "all" bit. A lot? I would agree to but ALL? That's just "unsafe generalization".

I agree that women are way more fluid than men but there are women who are still solidly on the heterosexual spectrum of sexuality.

Meanwhile men are so stiff Lmao. Someone tweeted that he was sick and his friend said " how are you feeling dear?" or something like that, and that's how he blocked the friend 😂😂

True on the generalisation.. 

I should have said 'some' not all.. Thanks for the correction. 

Some men even avoid hugging other men, cos they feel it's too 'gayish'  😁 

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9 hours ago, dequeen said:

 

The confusion arose though when straight women also had pupil resizing to lesbian BeHoly..... Hence the saying "All women have queer tendencies."

Just felt like sharing this here. 

Yeah l have seen a similar experiment, a group of straight pupil was plug with an electronic device to their eyes and brain and a half naked girl was standing in front with just her boobs exposed.

It was observed that most of the straight girls couldn't help but to look at her boobs and reacted in lost. It was concluded that all women have tendencies of being queer.

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21 hours ago, Ivyy said:

Some men even avoid hugging other men, cos they feel it's too 'gayish'  😁 

And they can't even compliment each other with their chest without adding "No Homo". It used to always crack me up. When I was new on Twitter, anytime I saw that, I would reply with " Homo" just to piss them off. I stopped when one took it personal sha 😂

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I have learnt a new one, Beholy 🤣🤣🤣.

I am more erotica prone than watching beholy and i can definitely say while i get turned on, i really wouldnt want to do half of what i read.

So putting myself in other's position, i dont think pornographic preference will necessarily point at people's sexual orientation but it can be a strong indication.

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I have a friend that claims she is a virgin but likes to watch blue film she even told her best movie was kiss and kill...  One lesbian movie like that,  and everytime this babe will be touching me oooo... Saying she is not attracted to girls sexually,  she just likes me n she is a virgin. I use to laugh her.  Well she is not my kind of babe so I didn't even bother to press button I just let her continue fooling herself.  After all I love her friendship and that's the reason we still talk

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