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Which is better to love or to be loved?


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Like people would ask, should I be with someone who loves me or who I love..

One of the most popular questions of our era.. 

What do you guys think?

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Neither... they each come with their own kind of guilt and misery respectively. My preference woul be to love and be loved back in return.

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Hmmmm. To be loved is better when it comes down to choice but its filled with lots of expectations and guilt and well, pain.

love is good but i have this notion that two people can have a good relationship without "love" as we know it. Loyalty, respect, discipline, etc are attributes that can just make things better.

 

at the end of the day, loving someone and having them love you back is just the ultimate.

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Like one of my favorite Evergreen musician Teddy pendergrass sang in his song

'it's so good loving somebody when that somebody loves you back. To be loved and be loved in return is the only thing that my heart desires'

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