Vivianobe0 Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 Good day all, am vivian based here in lagos, have gone through a lot of comments here and its funny how this place has turned out to be. Am in search of a matured lady for something serious, when I say matured i don’t just mean age. Am married by the way, am not in for a one time affair I want something real and pure. Pm me if you are interested 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted July 29, 2018 Moderators Share Posted July 29, 2018 Hi Viv... When I saw your post, I initially thought to mind my business and simply walk on by. Lol. On 4th thoughts, I decided to share my view: In my opinion, posts like this are a total disrespect to our community because it tends to suggest that we are not good for anything other than to be side chics? How serious can that relationship really be while you remain married? I'm a little confused with your post, please shed some more light. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vivianobe0 Posted July 29, 2018 Author Share Posted July 29, 2018 2 hours ago, kimi said: Hi Viv... When I saw your post, I initially thought to mind my business and simply walk on by. Lol. On 4th thoughts, I decided to share my view: In my opinion, posts like this are a total disrespect to our community because it tends to suggest that we are not good for anything other than to be side chics? How serious can that relationship really be while you remain married? I'm a little confused with your post, please shed some more light. OMG I meant no harm my dear, I typed that with a clear conscience regardless I apologize if my words were inappropriate 🙏. About wanting a relationship, a serious one at that while am still married.well there are things best kept out of the public. Am sorry once again am really sorry for my choice of words and thanks for letting me know 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted July 29, 2018 Moderators Share Posted July 29, 2018 Your choice of words were fine... Truth is your post will certainly appeal to some who would be sure to contact you. It's just that we get this often -people signung-up, making no effort at participating on threads and quickly jumping into seeking 'warm bodies'. Imagine how discouraging all these could be for lesbians who are toughing it out in the hope of actually meeting someone who is unencumbered. It just makes the community look like a joke and reinforces the mindset that we are not to be taken serious. I know you meant no harm... hugs 3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scarlet Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 I'm in Lagos, but not interested in anything serious, let's just catch some fun, Dm me if youre up for it too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 @Vivianobe0 hopefully you don't ghost when your search turn fruitful. I'd love to read your contributions here. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peking Posted August 18, 2018 Share Posted August 18, 2018 On 7/29/2018 at 8:25 AM, kimi said: Hi Viv... When I saw your post, I initially thought to mind my business and simply walk on by. Lol. On 4th thoughts, I decided to share my view: In my opinion, posts like this are a total disrespect to our community because it tends to suggest that we are not good for anything other than to be side chics? How serious can that relationship really be while you remain married? I'm a little confused with your post, please shed some more light. I only thought about this once before typing this. Some of us are genuinely here irrespective of our marital status. An escape from where we have found ourselves and want something serious /stable - Call it a second chance . There are so many reasons for this... Again, I have read somewhere that ALL are welcome here. It’s best you state your intentions rather waste everyone’s time. It’s not only about the Single Lesbians 🙄. So what about the Lesbians who hop from one warm body to another... it’s tough out there and we are in together. Nobody jumping into Lagoon😅 Anyway I don’t see anything about separating the shaft unless you like Steel Cut Oats after months and months of verifying wait. I just feel you should have used a softer tone; And not to discourage the “Later in Life Lesbians “ 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted August 19, 2018 Share Posted August 19, 2018 6 hours ago, Peking said: I only thought about this once before typing this. Some of us are genuinely here irrespective of our marital status. An escape from where we have found ourselves and want something serious /stable - Call it a second chance . There are so many reasons for this... Again, I have read somewhere that ALL are welcome here. It’s best you state your intentions rather waste everyone’s time. It’s not only about the Single Lesbians 🙄. So what about the Lesbians who hop from one warm body to another... it’s tough out there and we are in together. Nobody jumping into Lagoon😅 Anyway I don’t see anything about separating the shaft unless you like Steel Cut Oats after months and months of verifying wait. I just feel you should have used a softer tone; And not to discourage the “Later in Life Lesbians “ And your comment just changed everything I felt towards married lesbians. This is why it is necessary for everyone to speak up. I definitely see myself understanding more and agreeing that maybe some of us are a little too harsh on married lesbians, or later in life lesbians as you call them. #pheww Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted August 19, 2018 Moderators Share Posted August 19, 2018 11 hours ago, Peking said: Again, I have read somewhere that ALL are welcome here. Indeed, this still holds true ☺ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peking Posted August 19, 2018 Share Posted August 19, 2018 3 hours ago, kimi said: Indeed, this still holds true ☺ Naughty girl...how are you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted August 19, 2018 Moderators Share Posted August 19, 2018 Lol. I'm doing well thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted August 19, 2018 Share Posted August 19, 2018 Naughty girl? The archbishop herself? Holy Mary! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peking Posted August 19, 2018 Share Posted August 19, 2018 1 hour ago, Gimbiyya said: Naughty girl? The archbishop herself? Holy Mary! Yinmu...and 🚶🏾♀️ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MENA Posted August 29, 2018 Share Posted August 29, 2018 On 8/18/2018 at 7:47 PM, Peking said: I only thought about this once before typing this. Some of us are genuinely here irrespective of our marital status. An escape from where we have found ourselves and want something serious /stable - Call it a second chance . There are so many reasons for this... Again, I have read somewhere that ALL are welcome here. It’s best you state your intentions rather waste everyone’s time. It’s not only about the Single Lesbians 🙄. So what about the Lesbians who hop from one warm body to another... it’s tough out there and we are in together. Nobody jumping into Lagoon😅 Anyway I don’t see anything about separating the shaft unless you like Steel Cut Oats after months and months of verifying wait. I just feel you should have used a softer tone; And not to discourage the “Later in Life Lesbians “ I think l like this. The truth still remains that people are in relationship for different reasons. Someone could still find a co- married partner and still have a serious rrelationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ewoma Posted November 27, 2018 Share Posted November 27, 2018 😂 lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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