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On being Nigerian and Marriage Expectations


Dipbluesae

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It will always be there even if you are continents apart. Lol. What I do is to manage their expectations. My mum is now so used to me saying "marriage is not my priority" so much so that she laughs when she brings up the subject. They probably think I'm kidding when I say it's not on my list or thatI'm not interested because it always ends in laughter. Lol (marriage in the way they understand it at least). Time will tell. They will come to accept my reality

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For me...I ain't doing and ain't talking about it with anyone. It's my life and they understand that. But, what if am with someone who doesn't see things the same way I do.. yet. Do you think this mindset will change. If not then what..until when can I hold on.. and what if I just can't let go..

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45 minutes ago, DipBluSae said:

But, what if am with someone who doesn't see things the same way I do.. yet. Do you think this mindset will change. If not then what..until when can I hold on.. and what if I just can't let go..

Mehn... I don't umderstand this bit... it's the last day of the year pardon the slowness 🙄

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On 12/31/2018 at 11:09 AM, kimi said:

Mehn... I don't umderstand this bit... it's the last day of the year pardon the slowness 🙄

Lol mehn I don try rephrase.. paraphrase.. tire.. Welcome to 2019 lol I think I was sleeping and typing or watching movie.. either one sorry abeg..will find better title later😁

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