Michelle Posted January 30, 2019 Share Posted January 30, 2019 If same sex marriage were legal in Nigeria... A. Would you expect to cover the cost alone, jointly, or have your fiancé pay the full cost? B. Who would be most responsible for the planning? C. Would it be a small or large event? D. Traditional or non-traditional? Video Credit: Damiee is featured at 1:32 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 30, 2019 Share Posted January 30, 2019 A) I would expect we cover the cost jointly. But if my wife wants to bear it alone, Hey! Gladly😁 B)we should both be fully involved. I would be more involved in the catering aspect. C)I'd prefer a small event. Not one for so much fanfare. D)Non traditional Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 30, 2019 Moderators Share Posted January 30, 2019 Lovely topic! Nice going Mich 😊 A. I could if I'm the one who has the means. But I'm sure she would want to make some input no matter how little -so I'll go with jointly. B. We gon' get a planner yo! Lol. Or if it's her thing and she's happy to, we would do it together. C. I've always wanted an intimate (small) destination wedding ceremony. D. Traditional would be my preference but this decision isn't entirely up to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 30, 2019 Moderators Share Posted January 30, 2019 Hahahahaha @ the last two. He should go and work more! Savage. Thankfully we don't have to bother about such things. Lol. If it were my situation, I'll rather it is waved... we can arrange for that with the parents. My family doesn't collect any anyway, it is usually given back to the couple etc... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 30, 2019 Share Posted January 30, 2019 1 hour ago, kimi said: Hahahahaha @ the last two. He should go and work more! Savage. Thankfully we don't have to bother about such things. Lol. If it were my situation, I'll rather it is waved... we can arrange for that with the parents. My family doesn't collect any anyway, it is usually given back to the couple etc... You can re-direct your Bride price to me, would gladly Accept it..😉 Awww...My sweet Daughter kimi..😀 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 30, 2019 Moderators Share Posted January 30, 2019 1 hour ago, Txunamy said: You can re-direct your Bride price to me, would gladly Accept it..😉 Awww...My sweet Daughter kimi..😀 Hahahahahaha... you got that right! I'm very sweet indeed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 30, 2019 Share Posted January 30, 2019 3 hours ago, kimi said: Hahahahahaha... you got that right! I'm very sweet indeed Hahahahahaha! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RAVENFLOX Posted January 30, 2019 Share Posted January 30, 2019 I don't know how I feel about the concept of marriage. I honestly don't think about it but a. Jointly b. We both will c. I love small events and left to me I would want a small one only if that's okay with my partner d. non traditional Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted January 30, 2019 Share Posted January 30, 2019 A. Jointly B. Wedding planning is crazy stressful. A planner please. All we’ll have to do is make a few decisions and show up 😁. Although, I have a feeling I would marry someone that loves the whole planning experience. C. Small. Really small and private. D. Non-traditional Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted January 30, 2019 Author Share Posted January 30, 2019 A. Jointly B. I want nothing to do with it. I will provide input though. C. Small private event D. Tradional or a blend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted January 30, 2019 Author Share Posted January 30, 2019 12 hours ago, kimi said: Lovely topic! Nice going Mich 😊 A. I could if I'm the one who has the means. But I'm sure she would want to make some input no matter how little -so I'll go with jointly. B. We gon' get a planner yo! Lol. Or if it's her thing and she's happy to, we would do it together. C. I've always wanted an intimate (small) destination wedding ceremony. D. Traditional would be my preference but this decision isn't entirely up to me. Why do you think everyone said non-traditional except you? What’s wrong with a traditional Nigerian wedding? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 30, 2019 Moderators Share Posted January 30, 2019 3 minutes ago, Michelle said: Why do you think everyone said non-traditional except you? What’s wrong with a traditional Nigerian wedding? Hahahaha... Haaa. No o... lol. Non-traditional for me then! By Traditional, I assumed you meant the whole service in the garden, reception afterwards kinda not iro, buba and gele lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 30, 2019 Moderators Share Posted January 30, 2019 14 minutes ago, Michelle said: Why do you think everyone said non-traditional except you? What’s wrong with a traditional Nigerian wedding? There's nothing wrong with it to be honest. As a matter of fact, it is quite rich and always a delight. But for our lifestyle, lol. it seems like a lot. Lol. Dunno. Too much work.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted January 30, 2019 Author Share Posted January 30, 2019 5 minutes ago, kimi said: There's nothing wrong with it to be honest. As a matter of fact, it is quite rich and always a delight. But for our lifestyle, lol. it seems like a lot. Lol. Dunno. Too much work.. I dig it. This new generation of women are so lazy. Damn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 30, 2019 Share Posted January 30, 2019 3 minutes ago, Michelle said: I dig it. This new generation of women are so lazy. Damn 🙄 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted January 30, 2019 Share Posted January 30, 2019 A) Jointly. But i think its safe to say the person with more money would do the most. B) Wedding planner please. Although I might as well hire my babe because she will not allow the wedding planner see road. While i'll just be there like "anything you want honey". C) We would have 2 events. Traditional and white wedding (non traditional i suppose) The traditional would be an open/large event. I find traditional weddings more fun tbh. The clothes, the dancing, the spraying, the kolanut/palmwine, the assorted arrays of traditional food, the telling her father "i have seen a beautiful flower in your compound and i am here to pluck it" etc. Love traditional weddings! The white wedding on the other hand would be small and a destination wedding. Just close friends and close family members. D) Traditional and non traditional. Hmn, for someone who doesn't want to get married, i've sure as hell thought this shit out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted January 30, 2019 Author Share Posted January 30, 2019 16 minutes ago, Hawken said: A) Jointly. But i think its safe to say the person with more money would do the most. B) Wedding planner please. Although I might as well hire my babe because she will not allow the wedding planner see road. While i'll just be there like "anything you want honey". C) We would have 2 events. Traditional and white wedding (non traditional i suppose) The traditional would be an open/large event. I find traditional weddings more fun tbh. The clothes, the dancing, the spraying, the kolanut/palmwine, the assorted arrays of traditional food, the telling her father "i have seen a beautiful flower in your compound and i am here to pluck it" etc. Love traditional weddings! The white wedding on the other hand would be small and a destination wedding. Just close friends and close family members. D) Traditional and non traditional. Hmn, for someone who doesn't want to get married, i've sure as hell thought this shit out. Nice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted January 30, 2019 Author Share Posted January 30, 2019 23 minutes ago, Txunamy said: 🙄 🙄 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 10 hours ago, Hawken said: A) Jointly. But i think its safe to say the person with more money would do the most. B) Wedding planner please. Although I might as well hire my babe because she will not allow the wedding planner see road. While i'll just be there like "anything you want honey". C) We would have 2 events. Traditional and white wedding (non traditional i suppose) The traditional would be an open/large event. I find traditional weddings more fun tbh. The clothes, the dancing, the spraying, the kolanut/palmwine, the assorted arrays of traditional food, the telling her father "i have seen a beautiful flower in your compound and i am here to pluck it" etc. Love traditional weddings! The white wedding on the other hand would be small and a destination wedding. Just close friends and close family members. D) Traditional and non traditional. Hmn, for someone who doesn't want to get married, i've sure as hell thought this shit out. Before i read through to the end i was already muttering 'And she said she doesn't want to get married oooo' Thank your stars you rescued yourself at the end, i for finish you.🤣 Traditional weddings are fun as long as its not mine.Lol. i particularly love igbo traditional weddings cos of the songs and dancing. Oh! Those instruments. 😍 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 2 hours ago, Txunamy said: Before i read through to the end i was already muttering 'And she said she doesn't want to get married oooo' Thank your stars you rescued yourself at the end, i for finish you.🤣 Traditional weddings are fun as long as its not mine.Lol. i particularly love igbo traditional weddings cos of the songs and dancing. Oh! Those instruments. 😍 😆😆 allow me to fantasize please And yes, Igbo weddings are fun. Went to Anambra for one like a year ago. Totally enjoyed it. 12 hours ago, Michelle said: Nice Thanks 😀 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 7 minutes ago, Hawken said: 😆😆 allow me to fantasize please And yes, Igbo weddings are fun. Went to Anambra for one like a year ago. Totally enjoyed it. Thanks 😀 Go joor! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted January 31, 2019 Author Share Posted January 31, 2019 3 hours ago, Hawken said: Igbo weddings are fun I'd like to have one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 2 hours ago, Michelle said: I'd like to have one. I've secured my own already, good luck 😀 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 56 minutes ago, Hawken said: I've secured my own already, good luck 😀 Security. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 1 hour ago, Txunamy said: Security. 😜😜😜😜😜 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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