confused

[chocolat]

Am glad

[FlyJ]

lol @Chocolat.

[Iris]

Wen ur gf says u av wahala or anything along dat line dat doesnt mean she doesnt luv u. Wen ur partner mentions a flaw she tinks u might av, dat doesnt mean she doesnt luv u. I tink pple shd learn nt to alwys see such comments as an injury to their being.

[Rencie]

You would still finally get to the point where you can't apologize no more.

[Michelle]

On 8/30/2013 at 5:20 PM, simple said:

I'm sad and I can't sleep,something has been bugging me so I decided to share. I love my girl friend and I believe she loves me too,but I'm having reasons to doubt. Lemme start from the beginning,I met this girl through a friend. She saw me once and since then started calling me,wanting to see me and stuff. I told my girlfriend abt her and I dint honor any of her invitations until she left town, I stopped picking her calls and completely avoided her cos of my gal. Few days later she added me on bbm,I honestly dint know it was her so I accepted. I later found out it was her but figured it would be childish to just delete her so I left her on my list with the intention of ignoring her,she wud msg me nd I wil ignore until she sent me a msg telling me that I was rude and she just wants to be friends nothing more. We got talking,I told her about my relationship,she told me abt hers and she's a cool girl to be honest. Moving on,I had a fight with my gf six days ago. We were talking about something then I told her I love her wahala,she replied that she doesn't have wahala o. Told her she does and she asked me to name them,then I told her what is the point naming something she won't change? She blew up and said why I'm I talking to her like that? I asked her if I was lying,den she told me to take a chill pill and go to bed. I was so angry at her rudeness,and I asked if she was talking to me lik that but she dint reply. That night I couldn't sleep,I was pissed and I was chatting with the other girl so I told her abt it(had to tell someone and I don't really have lez contacts). She told me my girlfriend doesn't love me blah blah blah,I figured she wanted to spoil my mind cos she liked me so I stopped talking to her. She later sent me a msg that someone who loves me can't go days without hearing from me,she said I should pretend to be angry and not talk to my gf for atleast a week just to see her reaction. I dint reply her but I decided to try it,that morning my girlfriend sent me a msg, she wrote; lol,so u can get angry like this? If I remind u of ur past the way u remind me on mine u won't be able to take it o. I should have a nice day and bye,I ignored her as planned. I expected an apology thou and waited through out the day for one but none came,I tried my best not to contact her. The next day she sent good morning,I dint reply then at night she said good night. The same thing happened the day after that and she asked about my health but I dint reply,she did not call me for once or even tried to know why I was ignoring her. The following day she deleted me from bbm and till today she has not called or apologised or tried to find out and resolve the issue,now I checked her status with a friend's phone and it read 'if you won't do it,someone else will'.

I have always been the one trying to make things work in our relationship,I always apologise even when she's wrong. I have built 4yrs with this person. I really do love her,and I haven't been my self. Hmmmm I'm confused,can u give 4yrs of ur life to someone you don't love??? I don't wanna confront her yet until I'm sure of staying or going.

Why let crazy into your life? The first time someone shows you they are a bit off in the head you shut it down...block them in every way possible from being in your life...no second chances.