Moderators moresko Posted September 4, 2013 Moderators Share Posted September 4, 2013 There was a time when cheating had a simple definition, but nowadays we are more complex and less accepting of betrayal of any sort in a monogamous relationship. So when it comes to what women consider cheating, opinion differs. In a recent survey of 100 women, 36% believe that confiding in other women is cheating 41% believe that dancing too closely is cheating 35% believe that flirting provocatively is cheating 79% believe that getting private dances at a strip club is cheating 80% believe that engaging in cybersex is cheating. 100% believe that engaging in any sexual contact is cheating. Along with this, emotional cheating is an issue. Emotional cheating goes outside the boundaries of a normal friendship. Some common signs of emotional cheating are: She shares her most intimate thoughts with someone outside of your relationship. She seeks and gives a majority of her emotional support to someone outside of your relationship. She depends on someone other than you (her significant other) to meet her needs to feel loved, connected and significant. She's distracted by someone else when she should be present in your relationship (for example, out to dinner with her "friend"). She spends more time connecting with someone outside of your relationship — talking on the phone, texting or spending time together. With me, cybersex is cheating, any sexual act is cheating, and flirting is cheating. I don't believe in stopping anyone from cheating, if someone wants to cheat, they are going to do it. I don't believe someone's actions can drive someone to cheat, if you don't like her actions, break up. Personally, I believe that if you're in a monogamous relationship, but your heart is with someone else but you keep being dishonest to your significant other about your feelings, its cheating. A relationship is about more than just the physical. So what constitutes cheating for you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Diff Posted September 4, 2013 Share Posted September 4, 2013 I believe cheating is only that when it's sexual. Sometimes we meet ppl that seem "better" than our partners... Prettier, hotter, smarter... The works. It's normal to get attracted to other ppl... But not touching... That's the boundary. Cybersex is nt a loophole... It's still sexual. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
channel Posted September 5, 2013 Share Posted September 5, 2013 There was a time when cheating had a simple definition, but nowadays we are more complex and less accepting of betrayal of any sort in a monogamous relationship. So when it comes to what women consider cheating, opinion differs. In a recent survey of 100 women, 36% believe that confiding in other women is cheating 41% believe that dancing too closely is cheating 35% believe that flirting provocatively is cheating 79% believe that getting private dances at a strip club is cheating 80% believe that engaging in cybersex is cheating. 100% believe that engaging in any sexual contact is cheating. Along with this, emotional cheating is an issue. Emotional cheating goes outside the boundaries of a normal friendship. Some common signs of emotional cheating are: She shares her most intimate thoughts with someone outside of your relationship. She seeks and gives a majority of her emotional support to someone outside of your relationship. She depends on someone other than you (her significant other) to meet her needs to feel loved, connected and significant. She's distracted by someone else when she should be present in your relationship (for example, out to dinner with her "friend"). She spends more time connecting with someone outside of your relationship — talking on the phone, texting or spending time together. With me, cybersex is cheating, any sexual act is cheating, and flirting is cheating. I don't believe in stopping anyone from cheating, if someone wants to cheat, they are going to do it. I don't believe someone's actions can drive someone to cheat, if you don't like her actions, break up. Personally, I believe that if you're in a monogamous relationship, but your heart is with someone else but you keep being dishonest to your significant other about your feelings, its cheating. A relationship is about more than just the physical. So what constitutes cheating for you? I agree with u on ur definition of emotional cheating, but for me I can take that assuming my gf does any of that. Its jst a question of talking abt it so as to correct it. As for d sexual cheating, dats a no no Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted September 5, 2013 Author Moderators Share Posted September 5, 2013 I agree with u on ur definition of emotional cheating, but for me I can take that assuming my gf does any of that. Its jst a question of talking abt it so as to correct it. As for d sexual cheating, dats a no no I agree with you, emotional cheating is quite different from physical cheating but if it is something we've seen, talked about, tried to fix, and it still continues I would have to break off that relationship because she is looking for something that I apparently can't give her, and this other person can. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted September 5, 2013 Administrators Share Posted September 5, 2013 With me, cybersex is cheating, any sexual act is cheating, and flirting is cheating. I don't believe in stopping anyone from cheating, if someone wants to cheat, they are going to do it. I don't believe someone's actions can drive someone to cheat, if you don't like her actions, break up. Personally, I believe that if you're in a monogamous relationship, but your heart is with someone else but you keep being dishonest to your significant other about your feelings, its cheating. A relationship is about more than just the physical. I agree with you on the bolded. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M2DD Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 For me cybersex is cheating, any sexual act is cheating. I don't consider flirting,cheating maybe because I flirt a lot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rencie Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 I agree with all you wrote @ poster. Thus,cheat me not and I will cheat you not. Dat's all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M2DD Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 I agree with all you wrote @ poster. Thus,cheat me not and I will cheat you not. Dat's all Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 @ladyomah, Lmao..so true ...I feel ya cos I'm totally impulsive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted May 4, 2014 Author Moderators Share Posted May 4, 2014 I agree with all you wrote @ poster. Thus,cheat me not and I will cheat you not. Dat's all Are you saying if someone cheats on you, you would cheat on the person? Why not end it? Why continue the cycle of cheating? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rencie Posted May 5, 2014 Share Posted May 5, 2014 Maybe because I'ld like to take my pound of flesh before ending it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abystacy Posted May 5, 2014 Share Posted May 5, 2014 I agree with you....cheating is cheating no how insignificant we believe it to be. From sexual act to flirting to all the above mentioned points. We should respect our partner well enough not to engage in any of these. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted May 7, 2014 Author Moderators Share Posted May 7, 2014 Maybe because I'ld like to take my pound of flesh before ending it. Mmm, interesting concept but your partner doesn't lose anything so I don't understand what "pound of flesh" you're taking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rencie Posted May 8, 2014 Share Posted May 8, 2014 Hmm,don't be too sure about the losing part. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simpl384 Posted May 15, 2014 Share Posted May 15, 2014 thinking of cheating is cheating Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milaz Posted May 15, 2014 Share Posted May 15, 2014 Lool. Thinking in itself I agree is already 70% the journey. I always think if u cheat its never a mistskem u were 100 % ready to. I cant even stand the' drunk' excuse as a reason. Alcohol only makes louder what was in thought! ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milaz Posted May 15, 2014 Share Posted May 15, 2014 Mistake* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justmii Posted May 17, 2014 Share Posted May 17, 2014 I agree with all you wrote @ poster. Thus,cheat me not and I will cheat you not. Dat's all This post really got me lol! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justmii Posted May 17, 2014 Share Posted May 17, 2014 I agree with all you wrote @ poster. Thus,cheat me not and I will cheat you not. Dat's all This post really got me lol! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suavity Posted May 18, 2014 Share Posted May 18, 2014 Even with alcohol too?thats too much nah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted June 13, 2019 Share Posted June 13, 2019 On 9/4/2013 at 3:52 PM, moresko said: 36% believe that confiding in other women is cheating 41% believe that dancing too closely is cheating 35% believe that flirting provocatively is cheating 79% believe that getting private dances at a strip club is cheating I call this inappropriate behavior at the most. I may partake in a private lap dance here and there, but only on special occasions in which I deserve it 😀 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted June 13, 2019 Share Posted June 13, 2019 6 hours ago, Michelle said: I call this inappropriate behavior at the most. I may partake in a private lap dance here and there, but only on special occasions in which I deserve it 😀 Okay🙄 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted June 13, 2019 Moderators Share Posted June 13, 2019 9 minutes ago, Txunamy said: Okay🙄 Hahahahahahaha... you should ask her on what special occasions would she be considered as deserving of it? 🙄 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted June 13, 2019 Share Posted June 13, 2019 3 minutes ago, kimi said: Hahahahahahaha... you should ask her on what special occasions would she be considered as deserving of it? 🙄 Don't mind her. Special occasion kor, special occasions ni😀 I know what she has in mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted June 13, 2019 Moderators Share Posted June 13, 2019 29 minutes ago, Txunamy said: Don't mind her. Special occasion kor, special occasions ni😀 I know what she has in mind. Hahahaha... I'm enjoying this ☻ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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