Damiee Posted February 15, 2020 Share Posted February 15, 2020 I stumbled on this on my twitter feed and thought it to be a very interesting situation. https://www.thecut.com/2019/12/breaking-up-only-made-us-closer.html The gist of it is they broke up but for several reasons, one being financial, they decided to continue living together. Would you live with an ex after a break up? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted February 15, 2020 Share Posted February 15, 2020 24 minutes ago, Damiee said: I stumbled on this on my twitter feed and thought it to be a very interesting situation. https://www.thecut.com/2019/12/breaking-up-only-made-us-closer.html The gist of it is they broke up but for several reasons, one being financial, they decided to continue living together. Would you live with an ex after a break up? No, but I would allow her to live with me if she needed time to get her own place. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted February 15, 2020 Moderators Share Posted February 15, 2020 What an interesting read. Lol. “I never felt like your equal.” -that line cracked me up big time. You're both broke asses gurl! 25 minutes ago, Damiee said: Would you live with an ex after a break up? My initial response was "hell no!" Lol. But then again, I could be adventurous. I could easily do a few nights if we are fwbs like those two are. Lol. But most certainly not on a permanent basis. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted February 15, 2020 Author Share Posted February 15, 2020 13 minutes ago, Michelle said: No, but I would allow her to live with me if she needed time to get her own place. Lol what if she can’t afford to get her own place, as is the case of this two? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted February 15, 2020 Author Share Posted February 15, 2020 13 minutes ago, kimi said: What an interesting read. Lol. “I never felt like your equal.” -that line cracked me up big time. You're both broke asses gurl! My initial response was "hell no!" Lol. But then again, I could be adventurous. I could easily do a few nights if we are fwbs like those two are. Lol. But most certainly not on a permanent basis. Lmao why so harsh? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted February 15, 2020 Share Posted February 15, 2020 49 minutes ago, Damiee said: Lol what if she can’t afford to get her own place, as is the case of this two? If that were the case she wouldn’t be with me to begin with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted February 15, 2020 Moderators Share Posted February 15, 2020 1 hour ago, Damiee said: Lmao why so harsh? Hahahahaha. Was just pointing out a flaw in her judgement ni. Self esteem issues are real and quite sad to be honest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted February 15, 2020 Moderators Share Posted February 15, 2020 39 minutes ago, Michelle said: If that were the case she wouldn’t be with me to begin with. Now I'm curious. Won't date a broke girl? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted February 15, 2020 Share Posted February 15, 2020 Awwwnnn. It's obvious they love each other, maybe not in a relationship manner but they do care deeply for each other. Now to question, if I or her couldn't afford to move out then definitely we can stay together. Otherwise, it would just be torture especially when they move on. Overall it's not healthy except there's a chance we might get back together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted February 15, 2020 Share Posted February 15, 2020 12 minutes ago, kimi said: Now I'm curious. Won't date a broke girl? With no finances or potential to have wealth...no way. I can’t be with someone that needs me financially. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted February 15, 2020 Share Posted February 15, 2020 Interesting read.. I can only imagine. Sure, I can still live with an ex, but for a limited amount of time though. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted February 15, 2020 Moderators Share Posted February 15, 2020 18 minutes ago, Michelle said: With no finances or potential to have wealth...no way. I can’t be with someone that needs me financially. Hahahahaha... interesting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted February 15, 2020 Share Posted February 15, 2020 22 minutes ago, kimi said: Hahahahaha... interesting. Can you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted February 15, 2020 Moderators Share Posted February 15, 2020 3 minutes ago, Michelle said: Can you? It isn't my preferred situation but I have no problem being a provider or funding my partner's dreams if I love her. The Nigerian situation is such that people often find themselves in certain circumstances where they are helpless and of little or no means just because they haven't been given opportunity. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted February 15, 2020 Share Posted February 15, 2020 2 minutes ago, kimi said: It isn't my preferred situation but I have no problem being a provider or funding my partner's dreams if I love her. The Nigerian situation is such that people often find themselves in certain circumstances where they are helpless and of little or no means just because they haven't been given opportunity. I agree. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted February 15, 2020 Author Share Posted February 15, 2020 1 hour ago, kimi said: Hahahahaha. Was just pointing out a flaw in her judgement ni. Self esteem issues are real and quite sad to be honest. Lol true. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted February 15, 2020 Author Share Posted February 15, 2020 1 hour ago, VINA said: Awwwnnn. It's obvious they love each other, maybe not in a relationship manner but they do care deeply for each other. Now to question, if I or her couldn't afford to move out then definitely we can stay together. Otherwise, it would just be torture especially when they move on. Overall it's not healthy except there's a chance we might get back together. Maybe it’s the hopeless romantic in me but I do think they would eventually find their way to each other, even though their situation seems really helpless now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted February 15, 2020 Author Share Posted February 15, 2020 I could live with an ex but clear boundaries have to be set. Also has to be for limited period because it’s bound to get messy when we start seeing other people. Also, none of that Okafor’s law lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted February 15, 2020 Share Posted February 15, 2020 7 minutes ago, Damiee said: I could live with an ex but clear boundaries have to be set. Also has to be for limited period because it’s bound to get messy when we start seeing other people. Also, none of that Okafor’s law lol. She couldn’t have company over at my house...only close relatives. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted February 15, 2020 Moderators Share Posted February 15, 2020 13 minutes ago, Damiee said: I could live with an ex but clear boundaries have to be set. Also has to be for limited period because it’s bound to get messy when we start seeing other people. Also, none of that Okafor’s law lol. Lol. What's Okafor's law? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted February 15, 2020 Author Share Posted February 15, 2020 4 minutes ago, kimi said: Lol. What's Okafor's law? Lol something about if you’ve had sex with someone and it was good, you can have sex with them again even if you are broken up. That is, if the other party consents. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted February 15, 2020 Moderators Share Posted February 15, 2020 Just now, Damiee said: Lol something about if you’ve had sex with someone and it was good, you can have sex with them again even if you are broken up. That is, if the other party consents. Loool. Okay. Thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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