Moderators kimi Posted April 5, 2020 Moderators Share Posted April 5, 2020 Would you date someone who is not as educated as you? So for example, your highest qualification is a B.Sc/BA (University). Can you enter into a relationship with someone who stopped at the Primary School or Secondary School level? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted April 5, 2020 Author Moderators Share Posted April 5, 2020 This is a tough one. I wouldn't. Except there is something extraordinary about her. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted April 5, 2020 Share Posted April 5, 2020 Yes I would. As long as she is well spoken and intelligent. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted April 5, 2020 Share Posted April 5, 2020 13 minutes ago, Txunamy said: Yes I would. As long as she is well spoken and intelligent. 😘 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted April 5, 2020 Share Posted April 5, 2020 I value a woman's culinary skill level more. A woman that can't cook is worthless to me. I've been spoiled 😏 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chilee Posted April 5, 2020 Share Posted April 5, 2020 45 minutes ago, kimi said: Would you date someone who is not as educated as you? So for example, your highest qualification is a B.Sc/BA (University). Can you enter into a relationship with someone who stopped at the Primary School or Secondary School level? Quite a number of factors come to play but generally as long as they're smart and can pay their bills, sure! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted April 5, 2020 Share Posted April 5, 2020 8 minutes ago, Michelle said: I value a woman's culinary skill level more. A woman that can't cook is worthless to me. I've been spoiled 😏 😀 silly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted April 5, 2020 Share Posted April 5, 2020 14 minutes ago, Michelle said: 😘 😘 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chilee Posted April 5, 2020 Share Posted April 5, 2020 15 minutes ago, Michelle said: A woman that can't cook is worthless to me Can you cook? 🙂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted April 5, 2020 Share Posted April 5, 2020 1 minute ago, Chilee said: Can you cook? 🙂 Of course. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted April 5, 2020 Share Posted April 5, 2020 @Txunamy can I cook? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted April 5, 2020 Share Posted April 5, 2020 1 minute ago, Michelle said: @Txunamy can I cook? Of course😁 very well as a matter of fact. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chilee Posted April 5, 2020 Share Posted April 5, 2020 2 minutes ago, Michelle said: Of course. Ahh okay! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted April 5, 2020 Share Posted April 5, 2020 1 minute ago, Chilee said: Ahh okay! Even in that Nigeria I cooked for my boo with limited ingredients and made it pop. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chilee Posted April 5, 2020 Share Posted April 5, 2020 7 minutes ago, Michelle said: Even in that Nigeria I cooked for my boo with limited ingredients and made it pop. There's a popular Nigerian proverb; "Concoction rice na im dey sweet pass". 😁 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Modd Posted April 5, 2020 Share Posted April 5, 2020 Over a decade after BSc and me and most people in my age group are starting to realize that our Bsc and Masters degree is great but its not that great. Book smart is something but it isn't everything. I would date her if she's my type (boujee) and makes her own paper. 😀 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 15 hours ago, Modd said: I would date her if she's my type (boujee) and makes her own paper. Na them 😒😒 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Modd Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 1 hour ago, Hawken said: Na them 😒😒 You sha find me come hia sha. 🤣 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 21 hours ago, Michelle said: I value a woman's culinary skill level more. A woman that can't cook is worthless to me. I've been spoiled 😏 Man, I suppose some people might think this is a preference but this statement is incredibly problematic. Women are literally fighting to be seen as whole human beings as opposed to "the gender that should know how to cook". So this is not an okay thing to say at all, irrespective of weather you can cook or not. 4 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 1 hour ago, Modd said: You sha find me come hia sha. 🤣 Tofu gang 😑 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Modd Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 25 minutes ago, Hawken said: Tofu gang 😑 😂😂😂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissBanks Posted April 9, 2020 Share Posted April 9, 2020 On 4/5/2020 at 7:26 PM, Michelle said: I value a woman's culinary skill level more. A woman that can't cook is worthless to me. I've been spoiled 😏 Noooo...you’re joking lol but that’s a skill I think anyone can easily pick up now...might even be fun to teach her to cook I don’t see why I wouldn’t date her...as long as she’s willing to learn it’s fine 🙂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted April 10, 2020 Share Posted April 10, 2020 8 hours ago, MissBanks said: worthless to me 👆 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissBanks Posted April 10, 2020 Share Posted April 10, 2020 5 hours ago, Michelle said: 👆 👍 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Althena Posted April 10, 2020 Share Posted April 10, 2020 Waaaait, what did I just read? *squints eyes* Wowsers! Small sabbatical that I took and this is how low we have stooped? We're now so proud of spewing outdated stereotypes, prejudice, disdain and disregard for women? I know 2020 is bad, but not bad enough that we don't call each other out for reducing women to being worthless to someone else because they can or can't cook. Women are a lot more than that and I hope, and it is our duty as queer women who are trying to live outside heteronormativity to recognise this. Even be champions of this. Women have agency not worthiness due to their ability to cook for you. Kai, I have to say, I am very pained by this post 7 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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