softstud Posted February 8, 2014 Share Posted February 8, 2014 So we're all either in a relationship, or searching for that ideal girl. I personally have a 'quck to forgive' spirit, and that somehow informs some of my actions. For example, when i offend my gurl, i expect her to forgive me instantly, cos i wud if our shoes were exchanged. I can forgive anything, cos I'm a free spirit, and I just see every human as prone to errors.. So guys, i wana knw, wats that one thing she wud do, dat u wud never forgive? And how long d'u wait for forgiveness wen u do sm' wrong? Share ur thots Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted February 8, 2014 Share Posted February 8, 2014 theres nothing I cant forgive although I never forget. but if she ever says smfin bad abt my mum or is rude to my mum, dts the end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
softstud Posted February 8, 2014 Author Share Posted February 8, 2014 Wat if she cheated? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iris Posted February 8, 2014 Share Posted February 8, 2014 Ooops Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iris Posted February 8, 2014 Share Posted February 8, 2014 Oooops Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted February 8, 2014 Moderators Share Posted February 8, 2014 I will forgive anything, because we are humans and we make mistakes. I will forgive cheating but the relationship is over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
softstud Posted February 8, 2014 Author Share Posted February 8, 2014 I try nt to expct frm pple so I dnt get disappointed. Btw, wat dd u do to her? Ok, i met ds gurl online, we tryna get to knw each other, am bein rily open wth her, but she on the other hand is bein somewat secretive with her info. She cudn't even giv me her facebook id.. I was alredi rily trippin for her, buh then i thot to myself, she just mite be a scam. So i deleted her from my bbm.. Apparently, it turns out, she's for real, and she's rily pissed with me.. I explained my reason for deletin her, but she just told me, she could never speak to me again.. Any justification for not understandin my plight? With all the crazy freaks out der? Pretendin to be who dey're not, just to trap us?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
softstud Posted February 8, 2014 Author Share Posted February 8, 2014 I will forgive anything, because we are humans and we make mistakes. I will forgive cheating but the relationship is over. Hahaha, dat dont sound like forgiveness to me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iris Posted February 8, 2014 Share Posted February 8, 2014 Excuse me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted February 8, 2014 Moderators Share Posted February 8, 2014 Hahaha, dat dont sound like forgiveness to me I end the relationship not because of the cheating but because "love" doesn't exist in that relationship anymore. Nobody "mistakenly" cheats, it is planned and executed with precision. I have never met anyone that slipped and fell into p**sy, have you? Meaning that at a point in time, the person decided they didn't care about you and your feelings anymore, and cheated. That's isn't love. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
softstud Posted February 8, 2014 Author Share Posted February 8, 2014 I end the relationship not because of the cheating but because "love" doesn't exist in that relationship anymore. Nobody "mistakenly" cheats, it is planned and executed with precision. I have never met anyone that slipped and fell into p**sy, have you? Meaning that at a point in time, the person decided they didn't care about you and your feelings anymore, and cheated. That's isn't love. Word!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
softstud Posted February 8, 2014 Author Share Posted February 8, 2014 Not everyone is spontaneous, u knw. I cn see u judged her. U might av bin cowardly. Dd she tell u anytin abt being honest? If i may ask, wat d'u mean by spontaneous? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iris Posted February 8, 2014 Share Posted February 8, 2014 Impulsive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
softstud Posted February 8, 2014 Author Share Posted February 8, 2014 I admitted my cowardly behaviour, i was this close to eating sand, cos i was beggin for her forgivess.. My question is, shud be be forgiven? Or put under the knife? Just cos i was being cautious? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
softstud Posted February 8, 2014 Author Share Posted February 8, 2014 No response?? Well i guess not Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iris Posted February 8, 2014 Share Posted February 8, 2014 She read ur mssgs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iris Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 Peace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted February 9, 2014 Administrators Share Posted February 9, 2014 Dis isn't abt forgiveness cz in anyway u dint offend her. Maybe her nt talking wit u again is d only defense mechanism she's got. Scared dat if u cld take such a harsh decision at a time u two were getting to knw each other, wat wld it be in future. U probably were tinking only abt u wen u deleted her..witout a thot of hw she might feel? Lol and u say u like her. Again, forgiveness dnt mean u'd take someone bak. Who wants to get hurt? Why does it sound like @Softstud is referring to you? LOL... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted February 9, 2014 Moderators Share Posted February 9, 2014 Why does it sound like @Softstud is referring to you? LOL... Lol.. :lol:/> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iris Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 We're nt dat acquainted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 I admitted my cowardly behaviour, i was this close to eating sand, cos i was beggin for her forgivess.. My question is, shud be be forgiven? Or put under the knife? Just cos i was being cautious? you were just being careful, she is supposed to understand. u have obviously made her feel too special/important thats why she s acting up mtcheeew. like she wont do the same if you refused to open up or even show her yall pix. better run now o cs if you date such girl, ur gonna be begging for the rest of the relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
softstud Posted February 9, 2014 Author Share Posted February 9, 2014 you were just being careful, she is supposed to understand. u have obviously made her feel too special/important thats why she s acting up mtcheeew. like she wont do the same if you refused to open up or even show her yall pix. better run now o cs if you date such girl, ur gonna be begging for the rest of the relationship. Wow! I never thot about it in dat light.. Thnx man Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenA Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 Well yeah at first she may be a bit angry cos u deleted her but after explaining she'll come around eventually. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenA Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 If she doesn't then it's unreasonable because u were just being careful, so good riddance Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 If she doesn't then it's unreasonable because u were just being careful, so good riddance spot on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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