dreamgal Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 so what if she calls herself a dude? that's how she feels, y'all need to be more accepting, tolerant and less judgemental. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 And tasha you asked for our advise, you have no right to be rude just because you don't like what they have to say. Not cool dude Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted January 15, 2015 Moderators Share Posted January 15, 2015 I understand a TRANSGENDERED female asking to be preferred to in masculine terms and I WOULD DO THAT. Being a male is more than shopping, I'm not going to call any female, sir, dude, my guy and so on because she believes she "thinks" and "behaves" like a "male", and holds her crotch to take photos. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suavity Posted January 16, 2015 Share Posted January 16, 2015 Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted January 16, 2015 Share Posted January 16, 2015 I understand a TRANSGENDERED female asking to be preferred to in masculine terms and I WOULD DO THAT. Being a male is more than shopping, I'm not going to call any female, sir, dude, my guy and so on because she believes she "thinks" and "behaves" like a "male", and holds her crotch to take photos. And you wonder why people are homophobic. Well its you so I expect nothing less. If you like call her dude, if you like don't. Just let her be, so long as she's being true to her self its none of your business. This is naijalez, its suppose to be a home for lgbti for Christ sake, how do you think this girl is feeling now? With all these attacks? and you a moderator can't even lead by example or at least be gentle about your disapproval, not that u have a right to disapprove in the first place . Live and let live Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted January 16, 2015 Share Posted January 16, 2015 Is it just me or do @dreamgal and @moresco actually never get along on any topic / thread? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted January 16, 2015 Moderators Share Posted January 16, 2015 And you wonder why people are homophobic. Well its you so I expect nothing less. If you like call her dude, if you like don't. Just let her be, so long as she's being true to her self its none of your business. This is naijalez, its suppose to be a home for lgbti for Christ sake, how do you think this girl is feeling now? With all these attacks? and you a moderator can't even lead by example or at least be gentle about your disapproval, not that u have a right to disapprove in the first place . Live and let live Lol, you didn't read the first of my post. I refer to Transgendered persons that I know in whatever they chose to be preferred to has, and the last time I checked the poster didn't say she is a transgender female. However, I'm not gonna call a female, dude because she shops in mens boutique. There is nothing homophobic about that. My response to the poster has being mild seeing that she has told anyone that disagrees with her keep their "f**king" (her words not mine) advice to themselves, and YOU called her out about it, or are you homophobic too? As for you, you cloak yourself in "heteronormativity" and your dare call me homophobic, but its you and I would expect nothing less. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted January 16, 2015 Moderators Share Posted January 16, 2015 Is it just me or do @dreamgal and @moresco actually never get along on any topic / thread? Lol, so you noticed. Makes me feel special Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M2DD Posted January 16, 2015 Share Posted January 16, 2015 Is it just me or do @dreamgal and @moresco actually never get along on any topic / thread? I'm sure they shared the same girlfriend, in the other life..,, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted January 16, 2015 Share Posted January 16, 2015 lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hipstar Posted January 16, 2015 Share Posted January 16, 2015 Ok.. so I think I ignited dis fire by saying I wont address any female as 'sir'.. well m sorry if someone felt punched in d guts. Now Its not abt ur believe or feelings. D world doesn't see ur feelings, they see ur flamboyant facade. If u've got all d feminine attributes why wud anyone address u as sir? So long as all i see in u screams woman dats how i'd address u. I believe dat ur sexuality shud hv nothing to do wid ur appearance. I dnt hv to be all manny for d world to knw m a dyke. Now dis is not abt being homophobic or stereotypical. So I apologize to as many who wud tk it d wrong way. Just saying i'd nvr address a confirmed lady as 'sir' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted January 16, 2015 Share Posted January 16, 2015 I'm sure they shared the same girlfriend, in the other life..,, Hahaha!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daftpunk Posted January 17, 2015 Share Posted January 17, 2015 Hmmmn una like wahala o Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daftpunk Posted January 17, 2015 Share Posted January 17, 2015 Hmmmn una like wahala o Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted January 17, 2015 Moderators Share Posted January 17, 2015 I'm sure they shared the same girlfriend, in the other life..,, You got jokes. I don't believe in reincarnation, so I'll leave it there... For now anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evelyn Posted January 21, 2015 Share Posted January 21, 2015 Abeg moresko and flyj check tasha again oh. She/he keeps using the dude word and all my antennas lean to we giving advice to a guy. In sure we have many butch ladies in the house and they don't refer to themselves as dudes. Yeah we do sometimes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abystacy Posted January 21, 2015 Share Posted January 21, 2015 Oh well...I have missed a lot...first of all am happy am alive today to witness all these...nevertheless, if you are asking for advice and never expect an honest opinion..I suggest you keep it to yours. I just don't get why women have to refer themselves as dudes or d**ck..whatever... oh well drama every where Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daftpunk Posted January 21, 2015 Share Posted January 21, 2015 I don't really like being referred to as a dude, but I always believe "to each,his own",live and let live. If the person calls herself dude or want to be referred to as such, then so be it, no biffs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted January 21, 2015 Share Posted January 21, 2015 Yeah. no Biffs. everyone deserves to live their lives the way they choose especially outside the box. I'm trying to desist now from being judgemental. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evelyn Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 Yeah. no Biffs. everyone deserves to live their lives the way they choose especially outside the box. I'm trying to desist now from being judgemental. Exactly bt they just became judgemental on the poor girl Tasha i understand perfectly how u feel.... Have been there a lot of girls jes bust into ones life, become so choky and overbearing like befre they met you they were nt leaving My advice is communication... Talk to her let her knw hw u feel... We all entitled to a "ME" moment yeah even of we gat a relationship going on...... Being paranoid or all over you dnt mean when u guys break up she aint gonna move on or sumfin My 2 cents Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sophia blinks Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Why asking for help if you can't take whatever advice you get. Attacking responses that doesn't stroke your ego isn't nice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rencie Posted January 28, 2015 Share Posted January 28, 2015 Lolz,advisory council Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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