Moderators kimi Posted August 30, 2017 Moderators Share Posted August 30, 2017 When in a relationship, do you have certain expectations of your partner with respect to their roles and responsibilities. Are there certain things you expect them to do e.g. cook for you, pay some of your bills etc... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted August 30, 2017 Share Posted August 30, 2017 I'm not a role and responsibility kinda type. What I expect her to do is to love and respect me, care for me like I will do her, and then we let the love lead us. If you want to cook for me, fine by me, if you want to pay my bills, no wahala. One shouldn't expect what isn't coming, before disappointment starts setting in. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlie Posted August 30, 2017 Share Posted August 30, 2017 Not at all, we'll both do what comes naturally to us. I can't be incorporating 'gender roles' in my relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted August 30, 2017 Share Posted August 30, 2017 See ehn, lemme not lie, you will cook o, I don't care if you are a stud or not. If you like burn the boiled eggs, we will eat it like that. Ehen I also expect chores to be shared. I also expect, no scratch that. I demand good sex. I also expect loyalty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted August 31, 2017 Share Posted August 31, 2017 8 hours ago, vina said: See ehn, lemme not lie, you will cook o, I don't care if you are a stud or not. If you like burn the boiled eggs, we will eat it like that. Ehen I also expect chores to be shared. I also expect, no scratch that. I demand good sex. I also expect loyalty. Worry less hun I'm very handy. You Want heaven on earth, you'll get it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted August 31, 2017 Share Posted August 31, 2017 53 minutes ago, Gimbiyya said: Worry less hun I'm very handy. You Want heaven on earth, you'll get it. Jes my kinda girl. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted August 31, 2017 Share Posted August 31, 2017 Can the two of you get a room? Please And no, I'm not jealous 3 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted August 31, 2017 Share Posted August 31, 2017 Haha. Vina, from one thread to another. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenny1403 Posted August 31, 2017 Share Posted August 31, 2017 Lol....Anybody can cook on a gud day. I once met a gal who is so obsessed with cooking that she doesn't like it when anoda person cooks for / feeds her partner, so if cooking happens to be your hobby (as I have seen in sum cases)...then ride on baby. On other chores - Nope, leave dat for d steward or sumone else. On bills - well I would not let her sort my bills - leave dat for me. Then On EXPECTATIONS - Have my back just as I Have yours💞 - Be loyal to Us just as I am loyal us💍 Dazzzzzzzzzzzal 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted August 31, 2017 Share Posted August 31, 2017 Kikikikikikiki. Haters gon hate sha. See beef @Teewhy and @Hawken Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
contessa Posted August 31, 2017 Share Posted August 31, 2017 I love to cook... So all sauces, soups and stews will mostly be mine. All baking chores are mine.... That will not be contested. U can have the white rice boiling, plantain frying and whatever... Watching a partner enjoy what i cooked to me is almost as good as her stripping...emphasis on almost o... I demand devotion. However u want to show it is fine.I just want to know I m your Queen as you are mine. Er...housechore is for everybody o. It builds character (or so my mum said)...besides we are both women ni...why is it even coming up?😭😖😖... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kandy Posted August 31, 2017 Share Posted August 31, 2017 @contessa please can you bake red velvet cake😩, I can help you do dishes and laundry if you would give me red velvet cake 😢 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kandy Posted August 31, 2017 Share Posted August 31, 2017 I don't expect much tho so I don't get disappointed.. just be neat at all times lol.. and cooking isn't my thing but cleaning hell yeah.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted August 31, 2017 Share Posted August 31, 2017 Abeg I call dibs on @contessa I can so boil white rice and fry plantain. Me n you in 2018 mbok Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
contessa Posted August 31, 2017 Share Posted August 31, 2017 *** hours ago, Kandy said: @contessa please can you bake red velvet cake😩, I can help you do dishes and laundry if you would give me red velvet cake 😢 Red velvet cake is my specialty cake😄 along side devil food and marble..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
contessa Posted August 31, 2017 Share Posted August 31, 2017 51 minutes ago, vina said: Abeg I call dibs on @contessa I can so boil white rice and fry plantain. Me n you in 2018 mbok *Looks around quickly for @gimbiyya .... See I m innocent o! Come n carry ur boo please. This ur name dey fear me sef.... Sounds like one vengeful African warrior princess.... 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kandy Posted August 31, 2017 Share Posted August 31, 2017 @contessaWhat? Marble is bae!!!! Please what can I do to get marble and a lil bit of red velvet 😭 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
contessa Posted August 31, 2017 Share Posted August 31, 2017 1 minute ago, Kandy said: @contessaWhat? Marble is bae!!!! Please what can I do to get marble and a lil bit of red velvet 😭 Sell me your soul..... 😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈 I d like it in a jar please..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mifled Posted September 1, 2017 Share Posted September 1, 2017 On 8/30/2017 at 10:40 PM, vina said: See ehn, lemme not lie, you will cook o, I don't care if you are a stud or not. If you like burn the boiled eggs, we will eat it like that. Ehen I also expect chores to be shared. I also expect, no scratch that. I demand good sex. I also expect loyalty. Lol......Kia Vina oh.....I want to see your face sef. Want to put a face to all this mischief walahi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 On 8/31/2017 at 9:09 PM, contessa said: *Looks around quickly for @gimbiyya .... See I m innocent o! Come n carry ur boo please. This ur name dey fear me sef.... Sounds like one vengeful African warrior princess.... Hahahah @contessa I don't bite (erhm...okay small sha lol) @vina boo why are you laidis na. I thought I'm special to you 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 On 08/31/2017 at 9:09 PM, contessa said: *Looks around quickly for @gimbiyya .... See I m innocent o! Come n carry ur boo please. This ur name dey fear me sef.... Sounds like one vengeful African warrior princess.... Lmao! Exactly! So better leave Gimbiyya's babe and come and meet me. PS I wash, iron and fold clothes too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 On 08/31/2017 at 10:23 AM, vina said: Kikikikikikiki. Haters gon hate sha. See beef @Teewhy and @Hawken We are not hating jor. We just want you to pick one so the rest of us can see road 😒 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 4 hours ago, Gimbiyya said: ahahah @contessa I don't bite (erhm...okay small sha lol) @vina boo why are you laidis na. I thought I'm special to you Boo, you are now. I just got carried away. Chai! To be a foodie isnur good o. See how food want to lead me astray. @Hawken pick Ke? Are they beans? Lemme o Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 9 hours ago, mifled said: Lol......Kia Vina oh.....I want to see your face sef. Want to put a face to all this mischief walahi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
contessa Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 1 hour ago, Hawken said: Lmao! Exactly! So better leave Gimbiyya's babe and come and meet me. PS I wash, iron and fold clothes too Hey God! See my life! Why is it only other ppls boo I m attracting ni😭😭😭😭😖😖😖😨😨😨😨. The demon inside me wants them to pour me hot water and ruin my fine face. Aunty Kimi.... Abeg no vex.... I did not meet anybody o......please believe me😐😐😐 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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