Difference Between A Bi-Sexual and Bi-Curious Woman

[chocolat]

A lot of people are asking what really is the difference between a bi-sexual and a bi-curious woman. Let’s examine each here:

1. A bi-curious woman is one who often wonders what is it like to be in bed with a woman. Her curiousity will push her to enter into a same sex relationship, then try it out to see if she will like it. On the other hand, a bi-sexual woman is one who has tried it with a woman and would be willing to do it again, but still finds men just attractive

 

2. A bi-sexual woman is interested in dating both sexes while a bi-curious woman is interested in hooking up with a woman out of curiousity.

***. A bi-sexual woman is someone interested in having romantic or sexual relation with a woman and a man while a bi-curious woman is someone who is confused or feels multiple internal signals from both sexes and is not sure to which category she belongs.

4. A bi-curious woman is only interested in the sexual part of being with another woman while a bi-sexual woman may or may not have sexual relation with a man or woman but finds attraction to both man and woman

 

Ladies pls add your comment below

[moresko]

I agree. Many people don't know the difference. They think because they watched lesbian porn, and got wet; they are bisexual. I have nothing against being bi- curious.

From my personal experience, when talking to bi-curious women; there is no sensuality to sex (with women)for them , their description almost sounds mechanical (or very porn like), which makes me feel like some kind of science experiment.

She didn't want to kiss, or anything. The foreplay was minimal, just wanted me to go South, wanted me to use my toys, and so on. She got off, I didn't bother about mine.

I was way younger then, wanted to hump anything. The whole experience was a personal lesson for me, one of my worst sexual experiences. Never again.

 

[chocolat]

I agree. Many people don't know the difference. They think because they watched lesbian porn, and got wet; they are bisexual. I have nothing against being bi- curious.

From my personal experience, when talking to bi-curious women; there is no sensuality to sex (with women)for them , their description almost sounds mechanical (or very porn like), which makes me feel like some kind of science experiment.

She didn't want to kiss, or anything. The foreplay was minimal, just wanted me to go South, wanted me to use my toys, and so on. She got off, I didn't bother about mine.

I was way younger then, wanted to hump anything. The whole experience was a personal lesson for me, one of my worst sexual experiences. Never again.

 

 

Wow, am sure many women can relate to your story.

[moresko]

Wow, am sure many women can relate to your story.

 

Lol, I wouldn't wish such an experience on anyone.

[lovelie]

I agree. Many people don't know the difference. They think because they watched lesbian porn, and got wet; they are bisexual. I have nothing against being bi- curious.

From my personal experience, when talking to bi-curious women; there is no sensuality to sex (with women)for them , their description almost sounds mechanical (or very porn like), which makes me feel like some kind of science experiment.

She didn't want to kiss, or anything. The foreplay was minimal, just wanted me to go South, wanted me to use my toys, and so on. She got off, I didn't bother about mine.

I was way younger then, wanted to hump anything. The whole experience was a personal lesson for me, one of my worst sexual experiences. Never again.

 

 

u should know better. I have been with a lady but she was too scary. jst wanted to get down there. im past being curios at this stage even without having dne done the dealio. most bi curious are also too curious and unsure for their wn good.

[lovelie]

but please girls, dnt be like that. i do get ur point. and i see why that decisions is the right one. well, ***shrugs.... know better. "i lve moresko" ****smles

[moresko]

u should know better. I have been with a lady but she was too scary. jst wanted to get down there. im past being curios at this stage even without having dne done the dealio. most bi curious are also too curious and unsure for their wn good.

 

 

but please girls, dnt be like that. i do get ur point. and i see why that decisions is the right one. well, ***shrugs.... know better. "i lve moresko" ****smles

 

What?

[milaz]

I ag i never really free. Many people don't know the difference. They think because they watched lesbian porn, and got wet; they are bisexual. I have nothing against being bi- curious.

From my personal experience, when talking to bi-curious women; there is no sensuality to sex (with women)for them , their description almost sounds mechanical (or very porn like), which makes me feel like some kind of science experiment.

She didn't want to kiss, or anything. The foreplay was minimal, just wanted me to go South, wanted me to use my toys, and so on. She got off, I didn't bother about mine.

I was way younger then, wanted to hump anything. The whole experience was a personal lesson for me, one of my worst sexual experiences. Never again.

 

 

 

I can absolutely imagine!! @"...,makes me feel like some kind of science expetiment..".Up until now, I never properly understood the difference.

[zara]

the term itself is a major turn-off for me. like, if you're bi-curious or whatever, keep it moving, I'm not interested in your curiosity. I find it also funny in a wicked way when someone says pls im looking for who to teach me, that's alright, keep looking right ahead cos that aint me. back in uni I coopted two roomies (dem say dem never do am before, so I say, oya come make we do)

[FlyJ]

lol @ Zara

[Suavity]

D both is same joor

[Suavity]

Hehehehe @zara awuf

[dreamgal]

they are the same, a bi curious lady sleeps with both men and women, a bi sexual does the same. u need to be bisexual to be attracted to ur fellow woman even if its outta curiosity, the only diff between bi sexual nd bi curious is the motive behind the act. other than that its the same.

[moresko]

They are not the same thing, not every bicurious person is bisexual, and a bisexual person is by definition "not curious".

[fetish22]

I'm diving right in to make a point.

I agree with the OP's definitions of both bisexual and bicurious but I disagree on the part where she (I think) said there's no sensuality in bicurious sex.

Maybe the reason its pinching me like this is I consider myself bicurious.

I've never had a full lesbian encounterm. The most I ever did was mild petting with my cousin when I was about 9.

I'm bicurious because I've realised over time that I have strong sexual feelings for women. I want t kiss, lick , suck and f***k a woman. But I've had hetero sex exclusively my entire sexual life.

80% of which was disappointing and unproductive for me.

I would literally have dreams of making love with a faceless woman and that would be the only time d achieve orgasm.

I never had t touch myself or anything. Just the THOUGHT of wrapping my tongue round her nipple would stimulate the big O.

 

Now I'm ready to argue this out because like I said in my intro page I love the female body and there is nothing quite as beautiful.

I want to experience both sensual and sexual.

I'm totally open to a long term relationship with another woman as long as she compels me physically and mentally.

 

So yes, zara, I'm looking for someone t initiate me into being full on lesbian or bisexual.

That might sound upsetting.

But not every bicurious person wants a casual fling

[Iris]

Being Bi, Les or Straight is a thing of d mind. Its hw u feel deep inside. Dis is wat determines d path u follow nt d sexual experience u've had. If it wasn't then we wld av a choice. Maybe we wld choose to be straight. Sexual fantasies abt a woman doesn't necessarily make u les or bi..it is much more deeper..much deeper than d bums n boobs u wish to fondle.

 

Ur sexuality is more abt emotions than bodies. U av to be able to love a woman, knw u cn love a woman to consider urslf bi or les. Its rily nt sex. Infact I doubt its sex at all. If it was, I wldnt be bi..and wat wld happen to d girl I love or that I've loved? If u've nt loved a woman, if u've nt thot abt loving a woman..then ur hardly les or bi.

 

Bicurious is just wat it is.

[Suavity]

Good one iris

[fetish22]

So ur bi

And you don't think that's a choice on its own?

Deciding to be with both men and women?

 

I can't knock your choices because I don't know u or what ur all about.

The way u say bicurious almost sounds like ur passing judgement and that is not okay.

 

My take on who I am?

If it hadn't been programmed into my brain, like the brain of every other little girl, from childhood, that I was supposed to end up with a guy, I honestly don't think I would have.

My first emotional experience, I say emotional because there was no sex, no kissing, just cuddling and mild petting, was with my cousin and I was about 9.

Like most naija kids I didn't get t watch sexual stuff on tv but from the little I saw, the disney cartoons, the lovesongs,the once in a while peeps thru the pages of my older cousins m n b novels, it just sEemed like I was EXPECTED t be swept off my feet by some knight in shining armor.

That's my orientation. And for fear of being seen different I've suppressed a lot of my contrary tendencies. But a lot of times, in the privacy of my own inner mind, I admit t myself that being with (this, any) guy doesn't feel right.

 

My first love was a woman. A girl.

Sha a female

We slept together, ate together.

She used to live in my house till my aunt caught us cuddling naked under the covers and my parents sent her away

 

Pardon my naivete iris but u are not the emperor of peoples feelings/ emotions.

So ur bi/les.

Its wonderful that u were able to discover who u are early enough.

I'm not a talkative person normally. But I was offended enough by the thread to comment.

I have never had a fulfilling emotional connection with another woman and by fulfilling, I mean an encounter that would birth something so amazing and beautiful that I would be willing to throw caution to the wind and love openly and unashamedly.

You're luckier than I am there.

But I am OPEN to loving a woman.

I always had this fear that once I went THERE with a woman I would never be able to stand being with a man either physically or emotionally.

 

Again.

All these labels...

 

But the topic was the difference between bisexual and bi curious

I can't as well say I'm lesbian when I haven't been with a woman na. Or bi either.

So with all these labels (I guess) I'm bicurious

Make of that what u will

[moresko]

I'm diving right in to make a point.

I agree with the OP's definitions of both bisexual and bicurious but I disagree on the part where she (I think) said there's no sensuality in bicurious sex.

Maybe the reason its pinching me like this is I consider myself bicurious.

I've never had a full lesbian encounterm. The most I ever did was mild petting with my cousin when I was about 9.

I'm bicurious because I've realised over time that I have strong sexual feelings for women. I want t kiss, lick , suck and f***k a woman. But I've had hetero sex exclusively my entire sexual life.

80% of which was disappointing and unproductive for me.

I would literally have dreams of making love with a faceless woman and that would be the only time d achieve orgasm.

I never had t touch myself or anything. Just the THOUGHT of wrapping my tongue round her nipple would stimulate the big O.

 

Now I'm ready to argue this out because like I said in my intro page I love the female body and there is nothing quite as beautiful.

I want to experience both sensual and sexual.

I'm totally open to a long term relationship with another woman as long as she compels me physically and mentally.

 

So yes, zara, I'm looking for someone t initiate me into being full on lesbian or bisexual.

That might sound upsetting.

But not every bicurious person wants a casual fling

I was talking about just sex, nothing more. A bicurious woman is "curious" about sex with another woman, nothing more. Attraction does not come into account here, just sex. Bisexuality is a total different ballgame. If you're attracted to women, then you're bisexual.

[FlyJ]

I'm diving right in to make a point.

I agree with the OP's definitions of both bisexual and bicurious but I disagree on the part where she (I think) said there's no sensuality in bicurious sex.

Maybe the reason its pinching me like this is I consider myself bicurious.

I've never had a full lesbian encounterm. The most I ever did was mild petting with my cousin when I was about 9.

I'm bicurious because I've realised over time that I have strong sexual feelings for women. I want t kiss, lick , suck and f***k a woman. But I've had hetero sex exclusively my entire sexual life.

80% of which was disappointing and unproductive for me.

I would literally have dreams of making love with a faceless woman and that would be the only time d achieve orgasm.

I never had t touch myself or anything. Just the THOUGHT of wrapping my tongue round her nipple would stimulate the big O.

 

Now I'm ready to argue this out because like I said in my intro page I love the female body and there is nothing quite as beautiful.

I want to experience both sensual and sexual.

I'm totally open to a long term relationship with another woman as long as she compels me physically and mentally.

 

So yes, zara, I'm looking for someone t initiate me into being full on lesbian or bisexual.

That might sound upsetting.

But not every bi-curious person wants a casual fling

 

I find this arguable. Most bi-curious people just want something casual and don't even see themselves dating a woman. If you had said "bi-sexual" , i would have agreed with you.

[Ebelina]

fetish has said it all. The fact that we've not had a sexual encounter wit a woman or knows what it feels like 2 have a healthy relationship wit a woman makes us bi-curious. I'm not bisexual cos I havnt experienced intemacy whether sexually or otherwise. I wanna kno what it feels like 2 have a same sex relationship. It may not be sexual. I want 2 kno d difference. Thats what makes me bi-curious. Its kinda upsetting sayin d bi-curious are here b'cos they wanna experience d sexual fantasies with other women.

[Iris]

So ur bi

And you don't think that's a choice on its own?

Deciding to be with both men and women?

 

I can't knock your choices because I don't know u or what ur all about.

The way u say bicurious almost sounds like ur passing judgement and that is not okay.

 

My take on who I am?

If it hadn't been programmed into my brain, like the brain of every other little girl, from childhood, that I was supposed to end up with a guy, I honestly don't think I would have.

My first emotional experience, I say emotional because there was no sex, no kissing, just cuddling and mild petting, was with my cousin and I was about 9.

Like most naija kids I didn't get t watch sexual stuff on tv but from the little I saw, the disney cartoons, the lovesongs,the once in a while peeps thru the pages of my older cousins m n b novels, it just sEemed like I was EXPECTED t be swept off my feet by some knight in shining armor.

That's my orientation. And for fear of being seen different I've suppressed a lot of my contrary tendencies. But a lot of times, in the privacy of my own inner mind, I admit t myself that being with (this, any) guy doesn't feel right.

 

My first love was a woman. A girl.

Sha a female

We slept together, ate together.

She used to live in my house till my aunt caught us cuddling naked under the covers and my parents sent her away

 

Pardon my naivete iris but u are not the emperor of peoples feelings/ emotions.

So ur bi/les.

Its wonderful that u were able to discover who u are early enough.

I'm not a talkative person normally. But I was offended enough by the thread to comment.

I have never had a fulfilling emotional connection with another woman and by fulfilling, I mean an encounter that would birth something so amazing and beautiful that I would be willing to throw caution to the wind and love openly and unashamedly.

You're luckier than I am there.

But I am OPEN to loving a woman.

I always had this fear that once I went THERE with a woman I would never be able to stand being with a man either physically or emotionally.

 

Again.

All these labels...

 

But the topic was the difference between bisexual and bi curious

I can't as well say I'm lesbian when I haven't been with a woman na. Or bi either.

So with all these labels (I guess) I'm bicurious

Make of that what u will

 

 

 

My post is either nt clear or u dint read it well.

I'm Bi and I dd nt choose it. The little boy in Chimmamanda's story dd nt choose it. I haven't asked the Ugandan president's daughter bt I'm sure she wld say she did nt either.

 

Nor am I lucky, No. I have feelings n my feelings are true. Maybe I shdnt av generalized. I understand dat some pple are in and out. Again, I av to constantly remind myself dat it has to be sex for some.

 

'With whom I love I cn av sex'..and I will be well pleased.

[Iris]

I dnt knw if u wld like to read Chimamanda's thots on Gay, posted on dis forum by a certain user..I tink Abystacy. The story is good bt Chimamanda dint remember to tell us d little boy was gay because he had sex wit a boy and loved it.

[moresko]

fetish has said it all. The fact that we've not had a sexual encounter wit a woman or knows what it feels like 2 have a healthy relationship wit a woman makes us bi-curious. I'm not bisexual cos I havnt experienced intemacy whether sexually or otherwise. I wanna kno what it feels like 2 have a same sex relationship. It may not be sexual. I want 2 kno d difference. Thats what makes me bi-curious. Its kinda upsetting sayin d bi-curious are here b'cos they wanna experience d sexual fantasies with other women.

 

I knew I was gay at 13, and I didn't need "sexual experience" to know that, nor did I think I was "gay-curious". I knew then I was attracted to women and only women, and that was enough. Sexuality is all about attraction not sex. Sex is a mechanical process, I can have good sex with a guy, and I have bad sex with a woman; doesn't change my sexuality.

[Missmart]

the term itself is a major turn-off for me. like, if you're bi-curious or whatever, keep it moving, I'm not interested in your curiosity. I find it also funny in a wicked way when someone says pls im looking for who to teach me, that's alright, keep looking right ahead cos that aint me. back in uni I coopted two roomies (dem say dem never do am before, so I say, oya come make we do)

 

 

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