lala1990 Posted December 18, 2015 Author Share Posted December 18, 2015 *rme* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted December 18, 2015 Moderators Share Posted December 18, 2015 Hmmm.. that challenged me actually. I do hope to be here and active still by 40! Polygamous as ever nonetheless :P see your face! Hahahaha ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted December 18, 2015 Share Posted December 18, 2015 Please who has bb charger? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted December 18, 2015 Moderators Share Posted December 18, 2015 Hahahahahaha *smh* hilarious! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lala1990 Posted December 18, 2015 Author Share Posted December 18, 2015 Please who has bb charger? Na pin mouth I get. Can you manage it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted December 19, 2015 Share Posted December 19, 2015 Please who has bb charger? Hawken forming big gerls here. You've got phcn? No. Generator set? No. Socket? No. So why would you need a charger hon? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suavity Posted December 20, 2015 Share Posted December 20, 2015 Most times i don't understand what is been written here,that's why i don't say anything.pls try to make your contributions plain if possible thankyou. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted December 20, 2015 Moderators Share Posted December 20, 2015 What's all the back and forth about? It's not that serious. Participation is optional. But if you don't understand what's being said here then that's a different issue altogether. You simply need additional English classes People just be throwing shades. Ahn ahn. Geez! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted December 20, 2015 Administrators Share Posted December 20, 2015 Haha and this goes to the Queen of Shades - Kimi. Girl, you damn right...additional English lessons it is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted December 20, 2015 Moderators Share Posted December 20, 2015 *angel face* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M2DD Posted December 21, 2015 Share Posted December 21, 2015 I've said my bit, some people are busy with their lives. No one needs to give any excuse , it's just obvious fact stated. To the people keeping the site alive , kudos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M2DD Posted December 21, 2015 Share Posted December 21, 2015 Kimi, Suavity has made it clear on this site that she doesn't understand English very well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suavity Posted December 21, 2015 Share Posted December 21, 2015 Is not fair this not what i meant.some posts are just annoying that's all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted December 21, 2015 Moderators Share Posted December 21, 2015 Is not fair this not what i meant.some posts are just annoying that's all. Dear Suavity, I most certainly misunderstood your comment. It came across as though you were deliberately taking a stab at some. I do not enjoy causing hurt to another. I take back my words. Hopefully no lingering hurt feelings... xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 Awwwn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abystacy Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 Are you tired of wearing fake jersey??? Oyah!!! Order for your 2015/2016 new original and authentic jersey 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abystacy Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 On a more serious. We get busy atimes that we absolutely have no time for some stuff but that doesn't mean forever. And I also think it has to do with the Topic at hand. People like me, enjoy debate-like topics,opinions,and literary argumentative post.. Recently most topics we have ain't that ..... Because I spent most time looking for topics that challenges my intellectual abilities whn I come online, and I can't even put any effort into these replies anymore because its really not challenging enough for me. And because we have too much deerailers that sometimes makes the particular topic a lil bit off me. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeJay Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 You should bring up the topics to debate on. Maybe we derail cause we don't see anything else to talk on. I also enjoy intellectual debates. So, bring it on, please. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 18, 2016 Moderators Share Posted January 18, 2016 Spot-on! Teejay! It does seem like a number of us view this from the wrong perspective. What is NL to you? A lesbian news feed site? A place where you come to have 'strictly' intellectual debates? Then I'm afraid you miss the point. This is first a community. To 'build' any community, you must be willing to pay a price -as comes with most things. You need to give it the time and effort. We would not get very far if people only contributed or signed in fortnightly/monthly or bi-annually. It would disintegrate if we kept up trolling people who do not share the same opinions as we do. If we attacked and bullied people who only made a comment in the 'in search of a friend' section then I dare say we have a very long way to go -at building and sustaining this community. If the NLGBT community must make strides, it would start from here and with us. I believe in converts. Convert someone who came in with an intention to 'hook-up'. Trolling never did anyone much good than reveal the judegmental and short-sighted sides of us. Derailing? It keeps this place active. If you noticed, topic being derailed aren't any of the 'serious' ones and most times, topics usually initiated by myself. We each bring different things to the table which is largely a function of our varying backgrounds and personalities. That 'written' I would suggest that each must give what they can. I for one would never complain about participation levels because if we all shared in the concept of 'building' our community, we would act very differently. This would be my last comment on this thread. 3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 Mmmmuaah!,wish I could give u a deep intense wet kiss right now Kimi,i love u babylette. Everyone is free to post whatever they want here as long as it does nt go against the forum's rules. Now,I belive a large number of us actually have real life jobs despite our consistency on here.For example,i am currently writing this from my office.No one here is paying my bills and I aint paying nobody's either.I would rather close from work and participate in an "unserious" thread and cool my head from the day's wahala. I come here to laugh and relax...I cant speak for everyone.We are all from different backgrounds,i don't expect u,u or u to like what I like.Hell even identical twins from same womb can still be differentiated.What might seem intellectual to u might not be intellectual to me and vice versa. So please,Let's be fair and respect each other's point of view.One does not need to comment on what isn'nt of interest to the person.We mustn't say everything we see or hear. Even if we are all here here for one mere fact:"like minds", we still have to remember that it is still ,"different strokes for different folks" #my2f***kingcents# 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeJay Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 How come Sleeky didn't entertain me with that her usual? C'mon, gurl. Catwalk. Do that hair fling thing as you look back. Bat your eyes. Smile. Ahhh....that's cool. You can catwalk away now. Think I just wet my pants. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 How come Sleeky didn't entertain me with that her usual? C'mon, gurl. Catwalk. Do that hair fling thing as you look back. Bat your eyes. Smile. Ahhh....that's cool. You can catwalk away now. Think I just wet my pants. hahaha you f***king derailer! u're so unbearable,u know that right? hahahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 Mmmmuaah!,wish I could give u a deep intense wet kiss right now Kimi,i love u babylette. Everyone is free to post whatever they want here as long as it does nt go against the forum's rules. Now,I belive a large number of us actually have real life jobs despite our consistency on here.For example,i am currently writing this from my office.No one here is paying my bills and I aint paying nobody's either.I would rather close from work and participate in an "unserious" thread and cool my head from the day's wahala. I come here to laugh and relax...I cant speak for everyone.We are all from different backgrounds,i don't expect u,u or u to like what I like.Hell even identical twins from same womb can still be differentiated.What might seem intellectual to u might not be intellectual to me and vice versa. So please,Let's be fair and respect each other's point of view.One does not need to comment on what isn'nt of interest to the person.We mustn't say everything we see or hear. Even if we are all here here for one mere fact:"like minds", we still have to remember that it is still ,"different strokes for different folks" #my2f***kingcents# lol why are you being defensive? Nobody asked you to like what she likes or to not participate in 'unserious' threads. And no one is stopping you from posting what ever you want. Some of us just want more, nothing wrong with that. like you said, respect each other's point of view. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeJay Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 hahaha you f***king derailer! u're so unbearable,u know that right? hahahaha (To audience..) I love it when she gets feisty! Aww! Where's Kimi? Kimi come back. This place is incomplete without you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 lol why are you being defensive? Nobody asked you to like what she likes or to not participate in 'unserious' threads. And no one is stopping you from posting what ever you want. Some of us just want more, nothing wrong with that. like you said, respect each other's point of view. You just came to mis-quote what I said here, is this ur idea of respecting people's point of view or u just completely got urself confused. Dreamgal,Re-read and understand what the point am making is since it has obviously directly struck you in the heart.while u are at it ,go ask google the actual meaning of being defensive. sweetheart if u want more ,then put it out there,don't wait for people to do it for u.Don't go blabbing blindly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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