Hawken Posted October 3, 2019 Share Posted October 3, 2019 At first it was a bit flattering, now its just plain ass weird. I have a stalker who won't quit. I'm used to men not having sense, but from a female... Its just really really weird. My friends were telling me some weeks ago that I'm allowed to not give out my number (I know I am) when asked. But its just weird telling a girl that I can't give her my number. I think its presumptuous and that it would hurt the other persons feelings. But look at me now wondering if I should toss a number I've had since 2008 simply because I chose to believe that what I saw in this girls eyes was a trick of light and not the madness it really was. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted October 3, 2019 Share Posted October 3, 2019 What do you do when a woman asks for your number in real life and you don't want to give? Trying to see if I'm the only one who finds it hard to say no. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted October 3, 2019 Author Share Posted October 3, 2019 Nothing Really... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted October 3, 2019 Moderators Share Posted October 3, 2019 There's absolutely no point getting upset and aggravated over someone who has chosen an abusive relationship over reason... I am exhausted. ...and today, I have let go. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 3, 2019 Share Posted October 3, 2019 7 hours ago, Hawken said: At first it was a bit flattering, now its just plain ass weird. I have a stalker who won't quit. I'm used to men not having sense, but from a female... Its just really really weird. My friends were telling me some weeks ago that I'm allowed to not give out my number (I know I am) when asked. But its just weird telling a girl that I can't give her my number. I think its presumptuous and that it would hurt the other persons feelings. But look at me now wondering if I should toss a number I've had since 2008 simply because I chose to believe that what I saw in this girls eyes was a trick of light and not the madness it really was. I used to feel that way too. I'd feel like I'd be hurting the other person's feeling or making her feel embarrassed, something like that. But these days, what I do is, you ask for my number, I go 'let me have yours, I'll get in touch with you' and if the person reels out their number, I punch in but I don't save it. Bye! If you do find the perfect excuse to turn down a lady from giving her your number, pls let me know. For guys, I flat out say No. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted October 3, 2019 Share Posted October 3, 2019 Just now, Txunamy said: If you do find the perfect excuse to turn down a lady from giving her your number, pls let me know. For guys, I flat out say No. I'm looking for this too. NL people, please help. And for guys its definitely a flat no. With some amusement that they even had the mind to ask me. But what am i saying, a lot of men are unnecessarily bold. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 3, 2019 Share Posted October 3, 2019 1 hour ago, Hawken said: I'm looking for this too. NL people, please help. And for guys its definitely a flat no. With some amusement that they even had the mind to ask me. But what am i saying, a lot of men are unnecessarily bold. Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 Who eats raw plantains? 😂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted October 4, 2019 Moderators Share Posted October 4, 2019 4 hours ago, Michelle said: Who eats raw plantains? 😂 Hahahahahaha smh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 9 hours ago, Michelle said: Who eats raw plantains? 😂 I used to enjoy sneaking into the kitchen as a kid and eating raw plantains before its being fried. I love plantains, and I couldn't wait for the fried ones. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 3 hours ago, Txunamy said: I used to enjoy sneaking into the kitchen as a kid and eating raw plantains before its being fried. I love plantains, and I couldn't wait for the fried ones. You still eat them raw? I'll have to taste them the next time we fry them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 46 minutes ago, Michelle said: You still eat them raw? I'll have to taste them the next time we fry them. No, I don't Anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 1 minute ago, Txunamy said: No, I don't Anymore. ok Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted October 4, 2019 Administrators Share Posted October 4, 2019 Waking up to Ole has been sacked news. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chilee Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 The thing about a dreadful experience is not only the pain that may have occurred, but also the paranoia that sets in afterwards. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chilee Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 On 10/3/2019 at 9:04 AM, Txunamy said: 'let me have yours, I'll get in touch with you' and if the person reels out their number, I punch in but I don't save it. @Hawken this seems like a great technique 🙂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 Just now, Chilee said: @Hawken this seems like a great technique 🙂 Yes, its a gentle way to let them down and I'm definitely using it from now on. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 On 10/3/2019 at 1:34 AM, Hawken said: What do you do when a woman asks for your number in real life and you don't want to give? Trying to see if I'm the only one who finds it hard to say no. I find it really hard saying no too when it comes to women. I inconvenient myself and go out of my way to do things ordinarily I won't have done. I'll give her the number and even try to entertain her calls even when they bore me to death. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 1 hour ago, Chilee said: The thing about a dreadful experience is not only the pain that may have occurred, but also the paranoia that sets in afterwards. Sending you lots of hugs 🤗🤗 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted October 4, 2019 Moderators Share Posted October 4, 2019 3 hours ago, Chilee said: The thing about a dreadful experience is not only the pain that may have occurred, but also the paranoia that sets in afterwards. True... If this is about you, lots of hugs k... xx Be stronger and wiser. Good abounds... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted October 4, 2019 Moderators Share Posted October 4, 2019 Network is so shitty tonight... exhausting. "Inside every person you know, there is a person you do not know" -Gedoni Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 1 hour ago, kimi said: Network is so shitty tonight... exhausting. "Inside every person you know, there is a person you do not know" -Gedoni Hehehehehehehehe! Gedoni? Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 4 hours ago, Chilee said: The thing about a dreadful experience is not only the pain that may have occurred, but also the paranoia that sets in afterwards. Shake off the paranoia, Declare daily that Any dreadful experience shall not happen a second time. Like the good old saying, 'lightening does not strike twice' might be just a saying, but hold on to that.. Life is already too stressful to add paranoia to it.. Shake it off.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chilee Posted October 5, 2019 Share Posted October 5, 2019 8 hours ago, Mimy said: Sending you lots of hugs 🤗🤗 Thank you Mimy 🙏🏿 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chilee Posted October 5, 2019 Share Posted October 5, 2019 6 hours ago, kimi said: True... If this is about you, lots of hugs k... xx Be stronger and wiser. Good abounds... Thank you Kimi🙂 I believe so😊 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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